The relationship between parents and children oftenare never simple. The democratic attitude of our »today» directly affect the relations within the family. Children do not want to »stupid» to obey adults, they all have their own opinions and want to be heard and even listen. Is it correct? How to respond when your child fledgling teaches you? Psychologists are advised not to go into a rage, putting your miracle in place, while showing who's boss. Give your child the opportunity to express their opinion. Listen to him. The sooner you have this opportunity to provide, the greater the likelihood that your child will grow more independent and autonomous. Psychologists say that at the age of 6-12 years there is a choice between a psychological disability and competence. If the child is from childhood accustomed to the fact that his opinion is not an empty place for adults, it is unlikely to grow infantile deadhead.
The main task of adults is toTo clearly understand the line between the right to own opinion and permissiveness, ill-manner, often bordering on rudeness. ? The child can tell the adult how to turn on the player, but you can not ridicule adults that they are not at all in the »theme» of modern music and fashion. Dialogue teaches the child not only to listen to himself, but also to listen consciously to the opinion of adults. Pluralism is very good for educating a full-fledged personality.
There are parents who allow their offspringexpress their opinions about, and without it. In any expression. This is very dangerous in the first place for the child. He is accustomed to listen only to yourself, put your »I» above the opinions of others. We love these people? No. A teen community can turn this baby into a pariah. As a result - the moral trauma and loneliness.
Experts say that parentscan instill in their children as the leadership, and »pseudo» leadership qualities. Leader - one who not only expresses itself, but also gives an opportunity to speak to others, taking into account not only their opinion. Such behavior says about inner strength. But psevdolider able to listen and hear only himself. Inner fear of losing the »leadership» and the self-doubt, can turn a man into a monster.
