What if at school teased her son

Category: Kids | 19 января 2015, 12:16

What if the name of your son, for example – Kukushkin, peers quickly turned into Kukushkin and nothing else with his name? It is useless to accuse the boys of cruelty and promise to tweak my ears ("if you catch me, mister..."). But the son is not seriously suffering! Already shuns other children. God knows what complexes are still developing. Yes, and you now it, "Kukushkin dad"...

Wife demands: "are You a man or not? Do something!" To do, of course, necessary, but what?! To go to beat a muzzle to the fathers of the offenders is not the answer. (They consider such fun their offspring a children's joke, not only failed to take action, but I don't know what you want). Yes and we still don't know whose "face" as a result will suffer more. Black belt in karate you have, alas, no, and there are sunglasses, myopia, and you've never tried to fight. Even at school age. So to start is not worth it.

Translate son to another school? Not a solution. And there he will live in constant fear that his "shame" and know the nightmare will start again. Especially if you live in the area, and in a small town or village.

But to complain to the teacher in your situation could and should be. Perhaps he turns a blind eye to what is happening or being only addressed to the offenders of minor comments. Your appeal will force him to do do: to educate, not just teach. Ally in the person of the classroom teacher in this "war" will not prevent. You can connect and the school administration. In this part of the conversation with the parents of the boys who arranged the persecution of your son, and even better with the direct participation of young offenders, will be very different – serious – nature. The main thing in this situation is not to yell and threats. (Because someone teases your child from school do not exclude).

Make it clear to your son that he has protection and support. Spend more time with him, talking heart to heart, talk with his friends. But to the son he could stand up for themselves for the future, give it in the sports section, selecting one that your child likes. This will not only toughen him up physically, but also help to educate willpower, character, enhance self-esteem.