Роды… Великое таинство появления на свет ещё одного человека. Что ждёт его впереди? С какой целью пришёл он в этот мир? Эти мысли придут в голову родителей потом. А сейчас… Сейчас будущие мама и папа готовятся встретится со своим ребёнком.
Сегодня до сих пор ведутся яростные споры о том, стоит ли брать на роды мужа. Надо ли это? Мнения расходятся. Кто-то считает роды с мужем лишней травмой для мужской психики и причиной последующего охлаждения между супругами, кто-то, наоборот, яростно защищает эту идею. Я же считаю, что в этом вопросе не может быть единого мнения. Роды – это слишком личный момент. На мой взгляд, роды даже более интимны, чем секс. Поэтому каждый тут решает для себя сам, исходя из степени доверия друг к другу, желания поддержать любимого человека, да и просто из манеры отношений. В конце концов, все мы разные.
No, I'm not a psychologist or obstetrician. I speak about this controversial issue not from a professional point of view, and based on his personal experience. After I gave birth four times. Four times I went through these fights, attempts, efforts. Four times I felt an incredible relief when finally, the child is born. Although my first birth was 12 years ago, I remember them as if it were yesterday. Each time it was different, and each time it was perfect. Yes, perfectly. I will not dissemble: it was painful, it was terrible. Clock hanging in the room just above the headboard seemed mocked and specifically went as slowly as possible. And the doctor calmed all and said: »Well, a couple of hours,» »More for an hour,» »More half-hour.» Time dragged on unbearable, it seemed it would never end. But all ended. And at that moment I knew that here it is - is another part of me, which again will turn my world.
But after a few hours already forgotten the pain to forget the fear, and a desire to experience this miracle of the birth of the child again. Yes, that's it - a few hours after birth.
This happened three times, but once it was different. No, at that time I experienced exactly the same moral satisfaction, just thought it would be good to once again experience this miracle. But the process was quite different. The fact is that when I gave birth to her husband. One of the four times we went through it together. And believe me, no cooling between us is not caused, it did not affect negatively on the psyche of my husband this test. And I am today, if there is a conflict between us, remember those moments when he stood next to me during childbirth - a home, a loved one, he embraced me with trembling hands, kissed his hair and said kakie-to kind words, and your soul I have become a light and heat.
I have something to compare childbirth with her husband. And I know that I owe to him at that time that the delivery was light and fast that I did not look at the clock every minute, and the clock never stops mockingly at one place. I know that it was not easy. But who said that the birth - it just? Who said that life - it's that simple? But we go through life together, and childbirth - a life in its highest manifestation. Again, this is only my opinion, my experience. But he is so positive and bright that I could not resist to advise all women: trust in their men, lean on them, rely on their support. They are well worth it - the fathers of our children.
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