What is it?
Your ego acquires enormous dimensions, andBehavior is taken under vigilant control. You become a lady of independence, but your actions are deprived of spontaneity. You can catch yourself on egotism on the following grounds:
• exaggerating independence from others: »Relationships are not necessary for life»;
• Avoiding risk, all new and unexpected: »I know too little about the behavior of dolphins, to swim with them in an embrace»;
• go to reasoning about your ownExperiences, replacing them with their manifestation. »I understand perfectly well that this enrages me,» you say in an even voice, instead of hurling from the saucer window.
Why are you doing it?
Egotism allows you to follow your ownDesires, to realize experiences, to listen to internal processes. You become self-sufficient, you want to fix this state, and in order not to fall into a dependent relationship, you control your behavior. This feature can develop, for example, after attending trainings for personal growth. If before you were inclined to addicted relationships, to the merger described above, then the appearance of egotism in your life is not surprising at all.
What is dangerous?
Instead of contacting another person, you communicateOnly with himself. You are more interesting to yourself than a citizen is near. Even if the relationship seems quite normal, it is likely that you are enjoying the pleasure solely because you are playing the chosen role in a talented way. You are a singer, you are a strict spectator. As you can see, near - no friends, no relatives. There is a risk to lock yourself in a beautiful palace of understanding and awareness. But here's the question: who is interested in communicating with a can? And everything seems to be going well, you know your needs, are open to relationships ... but they do not happen. There is no nearness. It's like you can not cross a line and leave a gap between yourself and people.
