Conflict, communication difficulties, the search for understanding. For advice and assistance contact the psychologist.
“I live with a man for 3 years. He's a great friend, intelligent, kind and respects me. But everything goes wrong... He's short, frail, I'm big, sometimes I think that I look like his mother. Yes, often it is to teach, direct, irritated at him. And the characters have very different — I'm impulsive, he's quiet. But I want to be a woman, desirable and weak, I want it to be different! I could not escape the feeling that we're not right for each other, just waiting until someone better. But so scared to start from scratch or be alone.”
They SAY it is easier to live under the same roof with someone you hate than with someone annoying. It would be good to understand why your man is so irritating you and why you continue to live with him. I think the irritation is the result of a discrepancy between the "ideal" picture that exists in your imagination, with reality. You can respect your partner for his quality, but do not perceive emotionally and physically. If you for creating family enough respect and trust, it is necessary to stop and to dream and to receive it in the ka-coy he is. And fear is a bad adviser, it paralyzes the will and desire to change. Loneliness is only a "horror story" of our time, forcing women to marry a man she does not fit and is not needed. And begins the dramatic story of loneliness together on a background of irritation and dissatisfaction.
Belief in yourself, a sense of his own way, the lack of social fear will lead to the attainment of the desired Union. You choose!
“My daughter is 12 years old. Learns poorly, barely passed to the next grade, and even being cheeky, does not listen. I started to slip, yelling at her to "reach out", to explain that the main thing for her now is study. And my friends, and the secrets can wait. She withdraws and does everything on the contrary. I know it's a phase, but very early! Maybe there's something wrong? How should I behave?”
UNFORTUNATELY, you are wrong: girlfriends and the secrets I can not wait. Your daughter has entered the most difficult period of its formation as a personality, and she really needs your help. Changing it, will change you, otherwise you will lose contact with my daughter, she will not trust you. Instead of denying the importance of her personal life, try to join her interests. Do not start any conversation with instructions or notations. Discuss fashion trends, hairstyles, and gossip. Find some "girly" joint activity, it is not onerous, but allocating it among peers. Through such joint exercises you better know your daughter and can help her.
