For these 12 years I've been on dates, twiceWas married, and the second husband met in LJ. I also got divorced. ? She also cheated on children (also twice, her daughter in the car and almost on the air), changed her work, studied, took a different interest in embroidery and weightlifting. Lose weight. She was fat. I changed the country of residence, taught an exotic language. It hurt. ? Adonated. Complained. Boasted. I grew up. Came into childhood. Well, in general, lived a normal human life.
Very often people tell me that they can not besuch frank. More often ask me if I'm afraid of a huge audience attention, and in general - how to survive it ?! How to respond to psychopaths, kritikanov, inadequate fans? .. During the years of blogging I have encountered haters and lovers pursuers. The most ridiculous was the Japanese Lesbian, studying Russian. I saw the persecution network - both aimed at friends and me very. But I really like the anecdote: »You know, when you do not have to tell you this!» - »When I do not, they can even beat me ..!»
Tax popularity
In this story with online hate - and sheIt is sure to touch anyone who has more than twenty my friends - it is important to understand that a normal, good and adequate person whose opinion you would be an important, nothing like that will never be done. Just because people have more interesting lessons in sound mind and good memory, than the pursuit of strangers on the Internet.
I saw straight from the tin with a painful bloggersthe reader's attention to all the abominations and gossip that they are written. And some even come into the discussion, trying to prove something! I find it unhealthy occupation: all like to see on the street excrement not pass them by, and happily jump on them. Or ... izvalyalsya sheepishly.
From good to add that Hayter - is one percent of all subscribers. Consider the popularity of tax.
Blog - this is the perfect communication tool forintrovert. You can almost do not enter into communication with the people, but at the same time know that you are surrounded by friendly associates who take all your strangeness, stupidity and imperfection. And some of them even like! Otherwise, how would I giperzastenchivy introvert would find so many friends, husband, employer, and just fun entertainment?
If you are exposed in the web
One of the hazards oversheringa, accordingpsychologists, is the replacement of the real social life on virtual. The first symptoms are as follows: if a comment, post, article or picture hurt you emotionally if you ceased to feel the reality and fullness of life feel online only if your or someone else's frankness deprive maintain habitual life schedule (for example, instead of work you're running to answer Hayter to comment ), it's time to take myself in hand. Try to hold the length of time without the web or use settings to block access to sites provoking. It is necessary to hold out as long as you do not become emotionally independent from the online boards form, stop thinking about it. This requires up to two weeks. In severe cases it is better to go into the wilderness, where there is no Internet.
Content:
1. Introduction;
2. What is the use of stress? (You read that section).
