For those who have already formed a positive attitudeTo messengers, blogs, forums and other ways of Internet communication, it's time to think about how to use it to improve and improve the quality of your life.
The first thing that comes to mind is to make communication inThe Internet is a source of motivation. For something necessary, but unpleasant. For example, you make a post in LiveJournal or mailing on all contacts of your ICQ / Skype: »Starting Monday, I start doing exercises and getting up at 6 am. I ask everyone who works in the night shift, or lives in a different time zone, to call me at 6.15. If I'm still in bed - with me the battle of tequila. » And instantly there will be a lot of people who want to help you in a good endeavor. In the experiment, the most active participation will be not only your friends, but also sympathetic from the side or just lovers of freebies. Are there not enough people in the world who are willing to wake up early in the morning for the opportunity to pick you up from a warm bed? And tekilka something oh how not cheap in our difficult time, give it away oh, I do not want ... And, magically, your desire to have time to rise to the first call becomes much more weighty, the motivation grows and, as a result, the probability of success grows in direct proportion to the number of involved In the accomplishment of the events of people.
In reality, the organization of such a scheme»Stimulus-reaction» to achieve your goal would be due to the difficulties of a tedious search and long persuasion of suitable people, which, in turn, would nullify the very desire to get up at 6 am.
But only by increasing the motivation of Internet communication resources are not limited. One of the most remarkable of its capabilities is to change and improve itself through the selection of your friend sheet.
For example, being in the real life a seller in a store, a person who bought a fashionable smartphone (for example, http://smartbit.spb.ru/), Who discovered Skype or a LiveJournal account andSomehow having understood with the mechanism of a franchise, at once obmustaet friends - sellers and managers, those with whom communicates in daily occurrence. This is quite logical. Interests and pastime are the same, which determines the choice. And everything would be like in reality - a vicious circle from which not to escape. But the Internet provides a rare opportunity in everyday life to communicate with people who are several steps higher on the social ladder. And they have more knowledge. More experience. Wider outlook. In the end - better education and more money. And since they already have it all, it means they know how to make their lives better, more intense and more interesting than the existence of an ordinary consultant.
And here is the most common seller, if he hasWill get curiosity zafrendit even one such character, gets the opportunity to study free from his wise contemporary. He unexpectedly opens himself up to a whole world of possibilities for himself and breaks away from the usual stereotypes. It would be naive to say that this does not affect a person's consciousness. Anyone, making new contacts in ICQ, Skype or finding new friends on blogs and forums, after a while begins to overestimate their life principles and acquire new interests. It turns out that the Internet space organized by you begins to have a beneficial effect on yourself.
Something like social feng shui, whenThe autonomous generators of thoughts, ideas, information and life experience that you have in a certain order are combined into a complete managed system. And you can replace the weak elements with stronger ones, look for catalysts that give the strongest effect for you.
The idea of self-improvement through your communication is notNew - this principle of self-change was described by Dale Carnegie, but only Internet communication makes it so easy. It's enough just to find the necessary forums, sites, make new contacts, start communicating with those whom you want to become like - and imperceptibly to yourself begin to change for the better.
