If your parents are mercilessly spoiled you as a child, bought only the most expensive and best, gave all their time, effort, and love you, then you can be sure that you are a spoiled favorite of mom and dad or just mom — mother's daughter! This, on the one hand, there is nothing wrong and unnatural. Only one minus — your problems, which manifest themselves most clearly in adult life. So, let's talk about them and about how to resolve such situations.

Egocentrism. There is an opinion, widely held in society, that loving yourself is a very useful and necessary. But nobody says that this focus on myself has a lot of minuses. Actually egocentrism prevents. Very often, it makes you more vulnerable, sensitive and weak. Judge for yourself. The girl's parents were raised in a tight grip, unlikely to cry because of the fact that the chief was pretty rough with her when he talked about her mistakes at work. She was already used to criticism and know how to react to it. Somewhere best mate — silence. Somewhere ... quiet. The woman who used to write laudatory odes to your address, simply cannot imagine a situation where its not like, consider the best and most good. And she painfully, very painfully reacts to any observation by others, for any kind of criticism that is not justified. Career, and personal life will not receive a proper soil for growth.

Usually my mother's daughter react to all that they don't like, tears, anger and tantrums, scandals, violent showdown. Knowing that these nice properties of the worker, the Director very often simply ignore it. They can already predict the reaction of the mother's daughters to the comment and how one can progress on the ladder of career growth, if you're not willing to communicate, even if you make mistakes almost every minute? Nobody's daughter doesn't hurt, once again nothing puzzling in terms of requests and so on, but no one would think to raise her wages or to work more in office, but dismissed these often and with great pleasure.

Unhealthy reactions. Egocentrism often brings a woman to nervous breakdowns and other unpleasant situations. It turns out that health in this increased vulnerability is also far from ideal. Think I exaggerate? Not at all! The thing is that so tender a female person starting to feel sorry for yourself in full at every opportunity. Simply a disgrace! The shame causes what? Tears! Other pampered daughter just sees that someone does not want to do so as they want to, begin to roll up the scandal. Third so nervous during this pursuit of status itself that all kinds and forms, stages of nervous breakdowns until fainting they provided! There will be another to argue? Want much!

On one side, again it's good when a woman is not satisfied with the small — it is necessary at once and all! But on the other hand, there is also a disadvantage, such girls are seldom happy, because you never feel fully satisfied with his life. If they have become a leading specialist company, they want to become Deputy, becoming the Deputy Director, they want to be then, which is understandable, the Director, and then the owner of the company. The joy of a new rise can be compared to the joy experienced by a little girl, having received another gift from my parents. Two hours of the game with a gift — and all interest in it disappears. I want a new one! Plus there is the desire to achieve a specific goal and will certainly do the job, but the negative... Is it happiness to visit a woman who, the old woman from Pushkin's fairy tales, always regrets that are not so rich, not so powerful, not so noble, how could... This man is literally doomed to a constant marathon, a permanent dissatisfaction and permanent experiences. But to be doomed and just be are two different things. Happiness depends on ourselves! If we always think bad and not worth us, we need to change the dwelling planet! Maybe some mother's daughters to the moon to move? For permanent residence? From the aquarium to the ocean! My mother's daughter in many cases are not to blame. They were originally due to parental upbringing tactics really aren't designed for this life. Immunity they do not have. They are hardened from the troubles, the setbacks that so often can happen with us. In the end what we have? People easily fall into despair. Accustomed to easy victories at the expense of parents, this woman dealt with any obstacle in its way. They don't know what it means to deny yourself in something, to force and force to anything a favorite. And again in your character takes life! So here-you have to deny yourself, push yourself, and in General to work on themselves and their work up a sweat.

How many times have noticed how hard working athletes from working-class families. I think they're healthier? Do not make me laugh! The childhood of fried potatoes and a day urban camp in the summer yet no one hero in a skirt did not. Girls in the village carrying sacks of potatoes, buckets of water and logs. And when it comes time to give birth... Carrying heavy loads, excessive physical activity affect very badly on everything, and there is no fresh air, no goat milk will not help! And still those women who are used to no one else to count on but yourself! And they were persistent, hardworking people! Unlike those who in childhood once again not allowed to wash the dishes or take out the trash.

The worldly wisdom and the mind of the scientist. Often, my mother's daughter is given an eliteeducation. Now she has one road - to high-end specialists with the same high salary. But how often we confuse two absolutely different concepts - the mind of everyday life and the mind of a professional. Some women can win any court, sell snow in the winter, invent a new medicine, but they can not build their relationship with men, girlfriends and colleagues correctly. They are not accustomed to such simple human values. For example, some people like to be in the spotlight and do not think at all about how much other people like to communicate with them. The second type of mother's daughters is used to communicating with parents and their relatives who love them, so they are ready to do everything to just deserve the love of their peers, men and girlfriends. And it is these individuals who fall under the influence of the most unfavorable companies, and also associate their lives with a person who is not worthy of them, worthy of the title »gigolo». Perhaps they lack balance in their lives. They are used to standing on the step above everyone who surrounds their star personality, and they want sometimes to stay in the place of those who are below. So it turns out that bitchy, whimsical home beauty at work, at school and in her personal life turns from Princess to Cinderella!

Know how to give. My mother's daughter do not always become good wives and mothers! They used to take and not give. Meanwhile, the man who only accepts gifts, for anyone who does not give them himself, leads a very boring life. Who gives much, and receives the lot! Flexibility and the share of altruism play a huge role in a woman's life. To give everything in return for nothing at all, sometimes stupid, sometimes it's just too much. And your mother's daughter is another extreme. And it is costly for women, however, reap the fruits when the train has already left. But to fall into another absurdity — no better! Harmony should be in life! Harmony! Naturally, her life is severely lacking for all of us. A woman who is used to train your family, will also try to build your relationship with your husband and children. The result will be resentment, resistance and mutual misunderstanding. What causes it? Go to the registry office — how many in recent years has broken up marriages! Son bathed, her daughter lived... Here and there were two spoiled, petulant, selfish man. Who would be wiser and more Mature, no one knows. But family's salvation always rests with the adult. Not in terms of age, but in terms of realizing that in life's most important. Umbrella or family!

But to solve all these problems, you need to follow just three tips:

1. Forget that you are someone who likes! In the company where you work, in a sanatorium, where you rest, no one knows nor likes. Accordingly, all the actions of others measure in terms of "We are strangers, nobody don't owe you nothing". Of course, everything should be in the framework. If you are a good worker, you are entitled to a decent salary, optimal working conditions and an appropriate attitude.

2. The fact that you have rich parents and opportunities, does not make you guilty in front of someone and obliged the whole world. If you decide to be a sponsor and fairy, then give your attention to and assist only the most needy! Thus it is possible to avoid the dominance of parasites on your soft neck.

3. Try to gradually infiltrate the lives of ordinary people, to be ready for anything, the desired hardening. For example, one daughter of the Bank Director spent three months in an Internet cafe. Now she knows what a rude customer, a heavy twelve-hour shift and duty to wash all the cups.