For many of us it is much easier to do a theatrical smoky eye and put on the most provocative dress than to take the risk to go outside in the style of "friend of the forest Rangers ". How not to be afraid to be easier?

1. Learn to believe what they say about you openly. People tend to say what you really think. Forget about "he said it out of politeness". If a guy says you're beautiful, so beautiful you are, and not "he just wants to sleep with me".

2. Be more explicit, after all, and others accept as truth what you say. Prepared a guy for the first time in my life a carrot cupcake, and it's awful. "That good, huh?" "Not really... But I am pleased that you tried!" If you don't like is, many times will choke confectionery mistake of smiling through clenched teeth.

3. Don't try to say only what is pleasant to hear. If you're not a sociopath like Dr. house, will not make enemies. The guy makes the first steps in videoblogging, but is not very? Better tell him about it, than a thousand and one Troll on YouTube.

4. Don't justify and don't wait for excuses from others. For 24 hours you're making a million different things, and not the fact that they will all be perfect.

5. Acceptance is true love. And attempt to correct, to be Frank, not even love. You both are evolving and changing, and this process cannot be paused.

Girl in the style of normcore

1. Equally free to all. Do what you want and says what he thinks regardless of who is in front of her: boyfriend, friend or mom's friend.
2. Not breaking his head over the vagaries of love. Asked on a date? So, I liked it. Ring a month? Well, not hooked to each other.
3. Live in the moment. Today there is a bike,a picnic and flowers. This does not mean that it is urgent to think about the next step, to plan joint rent an apartment and come up with a name for the common cat.

4. Knows how to say "no". Not holding a grudge, not satisfied with the scandals and the phrase NO LIKE her not only on a t-shirt. Normcore is different. It's like you.