After a wonderful romantic correspondence, virtual jokes and short three hours of solitary telephone calls it's time to meet his possible fate at a local Italian restaurant. You look in the mirror and everything is wrong. It looks like you are PhD in the field of embarrassment. And you know how it can be embarrassing when you feel tongue-tied or intimidated. Nothing is more intimidating as a first date with someone who you think is a worthy Challenger, with the Charmer that fits you like a silk glove.
Don't worry. Here are seven rules that will help you to discard the embarrassment and Shine on the first date:
1. If you meet in person, try to be beautiful and attractive IN their OWN EYES (only eyes and count). Give yourself time to do this and make sure that the clothing fits well on you and you will be comfortable in it in the place where you meet. For example, if you meet lounge bar (eatsmart.ua/type/lounge/all (http://eatsmart.ua/type/lounge/all)) then try to look accordingly and not be "black sheep" compared to other visitors.
2. Prepare topics to discuss (movies, TV shows, books and news) that you find interesting (nothing political and nothing heavy).
3. Prepare answers to the questions: "What's new? What do you do?".
4. When you arrive, smile and dedicate to that person all your attention. Carefully notice who is wearing and other details about the people around me. The neckline of his shirt, the color of the stucco on the walls, dressed as a waiter, etc. It will distract your attention from yourself (focusing on yourself is the main cause of embarrassment!).
5. Ask General, open-ended questions. For example: "How was your day? How you felt growing up? How did you become interested in something or so ... What attracted you to my profile?" Pay attention to the caller's voice when he replies, and enjoy this sound.
6. Avoid discussing previous relationships (this is the number one way to ruin a date), talk of marriage, kids or sex stories and inquiries about debts or illness. I don't know what topic to focus, then talk to her about local bars and restaurants she visited. So you will be able to learn about her preferences and plan the perfect second date. To choose a bar that meets all her requirements, you will be able to www.eatsmart.ua/type/bar/all (http://eatsmart.ua/type/bar/all).
7. In the end, if felt some commonality, tell that person, as you were pleased to speak with him or her and that you would be happy to continue it sometime.
Using these simple steps, you will be able to relax, be yourself and have a great time. Even with the Charmer. Go ahead, enjoy!
