In the modern worldview success takes asame place, which occupied the ancient pagans in charge of the harvest god. There are plenty of schools and techniques of training success. The issues closely on the success of the luminaries of the world of psychology. However, the philosophy of success for us - a relatively new concept. We shake our heads in disbelief: Did you learn to luck? This is opposed to all the centuries-old experience of our ancestors: luck, fortune, success - in their opinion, all this clearly goes beyond the competence of the ordinary person. Meanwhile, the recipe for success is not so complicated. First you need to choose a firm that path: time to live - the time to be successful.
The most important thing in this way - the desire to change yourself for the better and change their lives. It is important not to be led by stereotypes: a stranger trying to meet the standards, it is unlikely you will become happy.
No matter how much you earn, there will always bePeople who earn more (this statement could challenge Bill Gates, but he can not read in Russian). All these people are successful? After all, success means, above all, internal harmony, and in this case the number of zeros does not play a big role. Here housewife who sews well, writes short stories for women's magazines and joyfully greets each new day. But the head is quite large representative, who had to 30 years to replace a pair of all-wheel drive off-road, but forgotten when the last time spent with his son for more than 15 minutes for breakfast. Which of them is more harmonious?
Blind pursuit of new things and statusthe steady increase in annual income, the pursuit without pause and without trying to understanding the goals - one of the heaviest burdens that man has taken on voluntarily. All the same can be done differently, better and happier. Let others assess our success on the part of, and we're just going to live a full and vibrant life and enjoy the process. After all, the recipe for success is simple: a lot of work and a little luck.
Our very first successes were the result ofHard work - we said our first word, took our first step, and also learned how to use the pot. And since then one of the sweetest sensations is the feeling of satisfaction from a well-done job. ? It's not necessarily about a complex project or a responsible management task. Today's success is 20 new French words and a translation of a text that a week ago seemed impregnable. The success of yesterday was an extra half hour on the treadmill. And, maybe tomorrow will be able to get up 15 minutes earlier, not to fry eggs and not to burn yourself with coffee. These small victories, like bricks, paved the road to inner harmony.
It does not matter what the goal is - to stop smoking,Get into last year's jeans or get to know Julia? Oertsts, - the scheme of achievement is the same. ? The campaign should begin with the correct formulation of the goal. Then you need to plan your way and define control points, in which you will have to look back and evaluate the results. In the way you need to constantly monitor your motivation. As much as we do not want to achieve anything, after a while the desire weakens and the pace of movement towards the goal slows down. It is necessary to stop, relax and choose a new stimulus, which is closer and more accessible: to smoke half a pack a day instead of the whole, to get into one's jeans with one leg and get acquainted at least with someone other than new business partners.
In this way there is always a lot of pleasantchange. Firstly, suddenly it appears longer. After all, the Russian word »success» - a close relative of the verb »to have time». Do not rush, namely in time and maybe even get ahead (unless, of course, do not throw the treadmill). Secondly, are everywhere waiting for the small signs of success - no, not social, and everyday, which tells only the closest. This success is a tasty cooked pilaf. The success of reconciliation after a quarrel. The success of the country to grow strawberries. The success of the recovery from the flu. Success did not forget to call my parents. Success jump tremendous mess. The success of non-discouragement, no-doubt, overcome. The success of generosity. They will be given new powers to work on yourself.
Our second condition - good luck. Yes, the same luck that the wise ancestors considered the prerogative of the heavenly spheres, and which helps many to play slot machines to gamble for rubles and win a fortune. Work multiplied by luck, works wonders. Indeed, it is possible to take up the oars and rowed hard - and ever will seem far shore. But much nicer to catch a sail in a tailwind, which will double, triple our efforts. Neither technique does not teach cause artificially luck, but some patterns can be discerned here. A clear mind and courage in the decisions, commitment and perseverance - the owners of these qualities luck smiles more often others. This again results.
So real success - is a dish where allone ingredient, which, however, is quite rare Presa without seasoning. It goes not for everyone, but if the main ingredient of all is in order, and there is a seasoning. And the very process of preparing this dish is terribly fascinating. Prepare for Health!
