Why woman does not want sex after marriage? Men often scratching their heads over this simple, ingeneral, is a problem. Not each of the fairer sex you agree to openly express all the reasons for the rejection of regular sex. And the first - unfortunately, almost basic, dissatisfaction becomes a problem. Do you still think that your woman never pretends to be? Are you so sure that it was her orgasm?

The inability of women to experience regular orgasms - This is the main problem for its own sake, andfor her partner, whose ego is suffering from an inability to please the beloved. And the more you drag his wife into bed, where come safely to the finish line, and it is excited, but not experience discharge - the worse you do. This is the real reason for divorce because no adequate woman who respects herself would not tolerate such mockery of his mental and physical health. Times wives of the Decembrists have sunk into oblivion, and the purchase of the vibrator, and an attempt to somehow remove the sexual tension in the absence of the husband will not save your marriage, and it is guaranteed to destroy or lead to a constant series of adventures on the side.

If you want to save your marriage and bring harmony in your sexual relationship, it is time you get down to business.

What you will be required?

• Learn how to do cunnilingus (if you still do not know how)
• Buy a vibrator and a variety of sex Toys
• Do not forget a couple of bottles of various lubricants - from cooling to warming
• ... and a couple of bottles of massage oil
• As well as carefully consider any manual on sex, which described a variety of postures

This is the cornerstone of good sex. Woman - incredibly subtle sense of being, which in every way needed constant gentle stroking and touching. Do not even related to sex. It's just a need - and if it is not implemented, it is only natural that your wife is not really something to strive for closer physical contact. Therefore, to begin with, »accustom her to the hands» - the more gentle touch, the more and more it will excite you and themselves will understand. Excited woman pretends to be unconscious - it may fidget, rub against you like a cat purring and playfully hinting strongly that it is time to ...

And now - not in a hurry to rush into bed andfive minutes to finish, leaving her confused and hurt! You will have to learn to control himself and postpone the moment of pleasure. Because women are usually slower and excited first orgasm can come in an hour and a half of effort. But the second and third will be much easier and faster.

Therefore, the ideal scheme of the ideal sex - isevening in a beautiful setting (well, you is not hard to light a candle and to stock up on a bottle of champagne just not much to drink?! - instead of help, only harm), which begins with a massage, going on oral sex (it is possible for both at a time, but you can altruist stay for a change) to the moment when your wife has finished (or will not climb the wall of desire) and then - sex.

What do you usually have sex? Most of the men suffers from the fact that immediately takesa very high pace and in just a couple of quick and sharp frictions come to the finale. If you are such - sprinkle his ashes on his head and remember one very important rule.

The rate of sex should ask a woman. One like shallow and sluggish frictions, the other - quick and sharp, but none would dare to say this, because the male ego is too fragile!

If your wife is well aware of your body and whatthe body needs - then give it full freedom, to achieve this most easily in a pose rider. And then a change yourself for a rhythm and try to stay on the edge of his own orgasm. There is a certain charm in this game - as a reward you will definitely be happy moan your lover and passionate breath, »I want more !!».

And what do you do if your woman and she does notShe knows what she needs? Here you can get a vibrator and stockpiled in advance modestly offer to show her how she does it. Do not rush it, it will be shy at first, most likely. The main thing is that the children you sex in marriage - it is freedom that you can not get with a new partner and boundless confidence. So use it for the benefit of its second half!

As for cunnilingus. There are among men those who just can not stomachone idea to lick ... there! But a blow job for some reason, these same men are not shy. This is not a reproach, but a proposal to rebuild something in my head and understand - everything is clean and smells after a shower, and if still clean-shaven - that all perfectly. But it's as you like.

The basic rules of good cunnilingus:
• Do not hurry
• Carefully monitor the reaction of the partner bodies
• Avoid sudden movements in the language of the beginning of the process and after it finish
• floats fingers if necessary
• licking motion »broad» language is much nicer than fast melteshenie -by at least in the beginning

Even if your wife does not like Cooney - trysure, maybe the problem is that before she did it properly, or (if you have it the first and only) you've taken the wrong rhythm. The main thing - to try to gently, patiently and with due share of perseverance.

And most importantly - do not forget that the situation andPsychological mood, too much depends. You do not go to storm the barricades. Today your task is to be an insidious and experienced seducer, tomorrow a patient teacher, the next day - a young teacher? Ome ... It's in your head, and if you do not have enough of your own fantasies, then spur them on by reading porn stories, even romance female novels (especially if the same novels are read by your wife-so you will find out what she lacks and what she is trying to compensate in this way .)

And the most important rule of good sex - it's yourtenderness and care about her. You can not relax in bed with a man whom you can not trust. And if she suspects you of treason, or you have recently had a falling out in large - it is better to first resolve the conflict, rather than trying to make amends for the problem of sex.

What to do if the situation is just the opposite? The woman wants sex a lot and often, and her husband - once every two weeks?
There are two effective methods - understand that usuallyin men it is also a problem in the head. And the reluctance of sex comes not from the fact that his wife has ceased to worry (though it happens), but due to the fact that there are a lot of unsolved problems and everyday stress. If so, restore the relationship better, a change of scenery.
It can be effective to holdweekend in some pretty hotel, turn off the phone and blocking access to the Internet. In case you have problems with erection, but there are no problems with the desire, it is not detrimental to stock up on a couple of Cialis tablets Avanafila or Super-P-Force. By themselves, drugs do not work, if there is no sexual stimulation, but otherwise healthy may be useful - to prolong sexual intercourse and enhance male sensation Carefully read the instructions before use.

The second cause of loss of sexual appetitecan be satiety. No novelty wife all the time is the same as before, it is more than a friend and mother than a lover ... And that's another problem. The wife can go a couple of days, giving her husband for her to miss - and the meeting will be stormy. It can regularly change the image - from hairstyles hair color, and ending with demeanor. This is the main secret of any relationship - the couple to be happy, a woman should be an actress - different every day and always a bit mysterious and inaccessible. To fall in love with her husband again and again and tried it in her arms, and was not looking for diversity on the side.

Sexy underwear, some BDSM toys and moreart of oral sex did not hurt to explore. You can feed your imagination viewing erotic films and reading erotic stories - in the fight for the love of all good.

The main thing - the desire.