1. To learn.
Doubts about what the guy will think about you and the color of your bed linen is really disturbing to think about the case, and generally living life to the fullest. If these questions arise only in the mind, not in bed, and settled there.
2. To build relationships.
If you attach too much importance to questions like "On a first date or the tenth?" or "why is my Romeo worse, with which we were on the internship?", the sex really gets in the way, because in any relationship we need to speak frankly and openly — sexual topics are considered.
3. At all like him.
The guy loves sex, and you're a guy. Turns out sex is this Cupid? Sex really can be attracted, but only if you're ready for it. If you are not ready, then neither guy will appreciate this "gift", because there is a risk that you start to accuse him of everything that happened. Plus imagine how frustrating when you have sex as a favor. But the main thing is, you most likely cease to please guy, if you sleep with him without desire, in the future you will not have him emotionally open up. Do you need that?
