Most women, including working,at least once in their lives found themselves in the position of housewives with full employment. I am referring to maternity leave. But there are women who have deliberately chosen homemaking as a career. As it usually look like? Permanent time pressure: feeding - dry - ironing - cleaning - kitchen - husband. And so indefinitely, daily. But sooner or later we are instead expressions of gratitude from the public are beginning to hear criticisms, the overall meaning is: You should be ashamed, »Excuse me, but for what?
So, let's talk, what should (or should not) be ashamed housewives.</em>
• Because we are housewives. We do not work at home that want something and do, sit at her husband's dependents.
Not true: housekeeping - our profession, and the work is not worse than others. The list of our »job» is not inferior in terms of senior manager list. The entire house rests on us. Try to eliminate out any option, if the washing up - and the house will automatically turn into hryushkin Reserve. As for wages, we pay her husband!
• For social passivity.
Not true. We are active: participate in the life of a kindergarten, a school, even go to the polls. We have an opinion and express it in the polls. We communicate on the internet forums. We even know the news nationwide and during a walk discussing them with the other housewives. (Laugh, laugh, you do something as active as we?)
• Because we look bad.
We look bad ?! We, with all the workload, lack of time trying to do hair, makeup, manicure, pedicure or even! Yes, we have no time to go for shopping in search of clothes for yourself - buy female domestic costumes online storeAnd other clothes from catalogs! We always meet beloved man armed with its beauty.
• For the lack of a career.
And what does a career? Many people use this word »success» value. By Western standards, we are very successful and self-sufficient: we have a job in which we reached a certain height, we have a family, we feel important and loved.
Actually for the household
There is usually a claim »fly» byin-laws, neighbors and least - husband. All-in-law is clear: it is the son of experiencing. So let everyday life will help your child! On the neighbor did not pay attention: perhaps it has its own problems, such that we do not, God forbid, so she is looking for, where to express her poison.
Husband. If reproaches, then:
a) fairly. Correct.
b) unfair. It should also help.
What is the conclusion from the above?
We are not ashamed of what we are - a housewife. We - family managers, its support and the rod. We - the hostess and proud of it!
