The child suddenly became quite different. Adults speculated on what it involves. But you don't always need to look for something considerable, explicit. Sometimes the reason lies in the little things that nobody paid any attention.
Butterfly, wings zmajevima in Iowa, could cause an avalanche of effects that reach a high point in the rainy season in Indonesia... author of "the butterfly effect" — Edward Norton Lorenz, mathematician and meteorologist. He created the theory of chaos, the essence of which is that to predict the variation of a phenomenon is impossible. Small differences in initial conditions or at any stage can cause huge changes in the future. What does this have to the development and education of children? Yes, the most direct. Education, even competent, based on the most beautiful feelings, is always a little chaos. In the sense that there are too many factors able to influence him. To take into account even just to see each we not. Yes, we have a representation where it comes from, and, analyzing the situation, we are guided by. And draw the appropriate conclusions, and make decisions. But then sometimes it gets worse — because the cause of the problem was quite different. We ourselves divide factors for major and minor, and it prevents us to see the “butterflies” that caused the corresponding “effects”. Mindfulness, the ability to look at what is happening through the eyes of a child and a critical attitude to their own behavior (those “butterflies” we often don't even notice it) — that helps to understand the situation correctly.
Dad showed pictures of his newborn son at work. Literally from that day on, the baby began to sleep poorly at night. It seems jinxed...
“How many times to repeat, not pictures of babies to show and social network to spread”, — pronounces grandmother. “One hundred percent is your Secretary. She long ago you had your eye on. Just wants you to be free. What's with her?” — drives to the wall the wife. When young children begin to behave not as they supposed (according to the books, according to our expectations), similar parapsychological explanations are often set in motion. Because it seems that changes have occurred for no apparent reason, out of the blue. For us, Yes, but not for the child. For example, dad came in that day, not the usual condition, behaved not as usual — slammed the door, too quickly asked, “How's our baby?”, too intense it rocked, then something was arguing with my mom. Small children, being in such, an ordinary adult, the situation will be stressed. Change everything: sounds, smells, movement, hands, faces — and it's disturbing. Even after the child finally calms down and falls asleep, he may Wake up after a while. And the next night to show signs of anxious expectation. Children are very sensitive to any, even the most insignificant, in our view, changes. This is the basis of their security. It is based on this belief that kids better not to show a stranger. The more constant conditions — the better.
