True copy

»Copy» + »Insert» - the ideal combination of keys for those who do not really care about the originality of the written material. But is it good this combination when you write your love story?

Often, falling in love, we strive to become an ideal forpartner and demonstrate the wonders of flexibility, adapting to his desires, passions, biorhythms and work schedule. It is so exciting and so inspiring! Only here the consequences of such mimicry - the big question.

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These sweet couples everywhere, always hugging andexclusively on the same wave-just Siamese twins! They seem to be so similar, perfectly suited to each other - look like, as the Europeans say. But cute and touching it is only in words but in deeds ...

Have you ever had to feelinexplicable irritation from what your high school friend (adult female, by the way!) enthusiastically talks about his new, dedicated to a certain Vassenka and its interests life? »We went,» »We found,» »We then» »We behold.» Is she forgot about the existence of the pronoun »I»? And while you silently negoduesh and girlfriend rapidly loses himself, psychologists vengeance criticized this destructive for the individual approach to relationship building. After all, the secret of family happiness is not to look at each other, not noticing anything around, but to look in one direction. A famous aphorism prababushkin »Husband and wife - one of Satan» represents not the unity of the image, and the direction of motion of a joint life.

When we are in love, the desire to be like the chosen oneit seems natural. Couples achieve the effect of »two of the casket», intentionally or intuitively copying each other (something similar happens in the monkey families, look at YouTube). The pairs of the human unconscious, as a rule, responsible man, and conscious almost entirely concentrated in the hands of a tenacious female. Similarity we are including giving others to understand: this is my territory, then occupied! There are lots of ways to consciously demonstrate this fact, for example, wear a pair of T-shirts at the resort (so often make the couple) or the same costumes on social events (this one time addicted to Victoria and David Beckham). In addition, it's really fun - something to do together, somewhere to go, something to discuss. Not to mention very intimate level catchwords copy, intonations and gestures. But there is one very important condition: really fun to be two of you, and not someone one. And it is not the first twenty minutes, and times.

In the process of adjusting to another personThere is one word verification. And the word is - »ease». While everything happens by itself, and not for the sake of something until you are sincerely interested in the thrill, while you, fascinated by the process, do not begin to break and remake its own personality, it's okay.