You just broke up, but according to his page on Facebook and not say. Really, until you shed tears, not even your ex is going through because of the break? Of-Md knows the answer.

You say, they say, men are crackers. Even worse. With these, bread, breadcrumbs, but of life and it is easier to fold up: Yes, hard, Yes, hard, but do not crumple and deteriorate. But if I put the heat in the boiling water to soak. Not that these pests insensitive. All of them like water off a duck.

For example, you broke up. Less than a month, you only to yourself to come early in the morning in the mirror native features of the happy (and sometimes, no matter how you look, well, just count Apukhtin, Chinese beekeeper). And he — well, how so? — the picture in Instagram with some swell hugging, happy like a boa constrictor! I think after this what I want: so if you just don't care about; whether it is every guy's some kind of congenital peculiarity that they are parting easier; whether you something is wrong. What's the deal?

Let's make a deal: option "Pomatrosil and threw" when it senses no not entertained and just ran to a random skirt, I even consider not going. But a question, how much easier men carry the breakup, try to understand. Admittedly, I'm not special. And this seems to be the main problem. I absemetova: we men, in parting. Not trained. Your foot in the door to knock or walnut teeth to crack it please. But with a painful breakup to make — there is no such skill.

Women easier. From childhood are taught how to behave in such situations. To convene friends to go to her mother, cried, to give vent to emotions — all of it. What do we have? Almost from the cradle we are always told to be a man! This guy is flint. He even closest friend to complain, because it is not found in the lexicon of words to pour out the soul. And the response from the friends you get no sympathy: “Yes LAN those che you? Everything will be fine, you're human!”, — that's the whole therapy. And outburst of emotions, which, of course, he needs no less than you happen to be using a completely inappropriate action: get drunk, fight, fun... Or start off meeting other girls. And he does it, not to annoy you. but, like you, for rehabilitation.

Imagine that your relationship, now broken, is that invisible, but nonetheless heavy bag. Or rather two: one on your shoulders, the other-from him. And both of you want the burden to be free, so that it became easier and it was possible to live in peace. But just from gravity will not disposed of, it must, figuratively speaking, buried in the ground. What do you do? That's right — take a shovel and, smearing the tears across the face, start digging. And Mama with her friends help. Together, you are digging a pit of suitable size, push back the goods, wash my hands and move on.

He's not doing that. First, friends always say, or no bag at all, or it's much smaller and lighter than the sufferer is imagining things. And secondly, they would be happy to help, but here's the surprise: none of them, in principle, does not know how to dig. And load all presses and presses — and not less. In the end your ex is trying to dig still a little small kind of a hole, he begins to make awkward gestures. For example, to give hopak. And dancing so hard that eventually underfoot formed a recess where you can throw off at least part of the cargo. While you are at this point looking at it from the side and think, “That's because you bastard! All the while he does not mind. I'm Roy struggling was worn out with suffering, and he dances!”

Funny, of course, but essentially everything is as it is. A man can't just go and admit that Yes, he's hurting, he's suffering. Not able to talk about it even with close friends. And that's something to squeeze, he should get drunk. And in the morning with a hangover he won't remember, nor what I said, PI coma. And cargo isn't going anywhere, and everything is repeated again.

So answer the question: it's not with you something is wrong, just that it is another may not. I'm telling you! I hope feel better?

His reaction to the gap depends on which of the three types of men is part of your ex.

1. ROMANTIC-OPTIMIST
I will try to return, if necessary, will work wonders for that! It helped Jim Carrey in "Bruce Almighty".

2. YOUR GUY
Quickly find a girlfriend, wanting to comfort him. The film "In flight" with Jason Segel the illustration.

3. VULNERABLE MACHO
Bravely will take the hit but stay at home to mourn your novel, Nikita Panfilov as in "Sweet life".