At the age of two to three years from your offspringcan for the first time to wake up the desire to do something to help you. It is natural for a child this age will and very well if it is as naturally satisfied. The desire to wash the dishes with my mother or vacuum means that your baby begins to form its own social model of behavior. In addition, it is interesting to try new things, to perform the same actions as the mother.
To deny the child can not be because of your reaction to his first offer of assistance, largely depends on his self-esteem in the future, relevant to the work and himself.

Do not speak: »You only hurt, without you I'll do it quickly.» Even if this is so in reality, for the sake of the future of your child is not afraid to take the initiative, he was in charge and was able to realize its full potential in their chosen profession, hold back and let him give you some possible help. Available explain what he needs to do to help you. And if the reasons for which you can not accept his help, objective, try to switch his attention to another matter, which he can easily cope.

Maybe for the benefit of young mothersAssistant is not very much, but this positive experience is very useful in the future child. In addition, being together in the kitchen or cleaning the apartment, may well turn into a fun game.