Love it? | Ready №1 | Claudel Models

After watching questionable TV shows, irrepressible grandmother says: "All boys want the same thing, before the wedding no-no!" Friend, self-proclaimed expert on relationship and broke up with her last boyfriend two years ago, assures: "we Need to wait at least 3 months!" And your brother's girlfriend, in which he is in love to unconsciousness, confidently declares: "On the third date already!" You're confused about the theories — when possible from the proximity of the spiritual to move on to physical intimacy? And sure if the first should happen before the second? It is possible, on the one hand, you know that already and don't want to.

And doubt, of consciousness not in a hurry to escape grandma's words: "Irregular and too available!" Maybe you realize that three months have passed, but you're still not sure I'm ready. Or rather, I'm sure not ready. Don't listen to anyone — it's up to you. For some couples sex on the first date becomes the starting point for "happily ever after", while others break up, despite the fact that the "waited" time. The only guideline is your own feelings.

If you trust this boy and know that he treats you with tenderness and respect, then maybe in "probation" makes no sense. Yes, this is an important step, but when your feelings are strong and sincere, it happens somehow by itself, without excessive doubt and mental agony. If you're still not sure, what you want with it and right now, no rush. You should not do what can regret.

Maybe just until the time is right. Most importantly, if you decide you want to declare "readiness № 1", don't forget about contraception — we dare to assume, even if you really want to be together for the rest of my life, to be mom and dad you're not planning to.