How often we hear men, cleaning, cooking, Laundry and so on are only for women. Of course, earlier, when the woman was only home and not worked – this stereotype was relevant. But now, when women work equally with men the time to change this belief. After all, it's not fair that you both work for a whole week, and on weekends he is tired and resting, and You wash, wash, clean, cook. So, how to get a man to help around the house?
1. From the very beginning of Your relationship does not divide the work into male and female. Engage his help in all the chores around the house – cooking, washing, cleaning. If we still want to share the burden – sharing according to the principle of "like to do" and not "must".
2. Will be much harder to teach him to help around the house, if in your family it was not accepted. But you need to let him know that you're not cope with everything alone and need him. Hard men can take a hint, so if you want something – tell me straight. The main thing is to let the man know that he is not a housewife and need an assistant, then no problems should arise.
3. Do not demand the performance of some household chores with quarrels and shouting. Also does not help the nagging and reproaches. On the contrary, we get the opposite result.
4. If he has not fulfilled his responsibilities at home, not do them for him. If You do this 1 time, then gradually it will become Your responsibility.
5. Always praise him for a job well done.





