Joint life — a joint budget. Many quarrels begin in families because of disagreement in the allocation of funds. To know what to prepare themselves in advance, should pay attention to with regard to money your potential husband.
According to psychologists in family relationships determine who is the main money. Now if the guy is just a cheapskate, in the future it may turn into a domestic tyrant and dictator.
Conversations about money
Only when a couple begins to date, each has its own income and expenses. Moreover, such topics are not usually discussed in society, a normal man feels uncomfortable talking about their salary or different awards with his girlfriend. Of course, there are exceptions who are willing to discuss with the object of adoration of anything, and if your date is just such a type, and you're not averse to talk on the topic of money, it's worth to keep an eye out. If you hear from him something of the following — watch out — your partner may be completely different from what they seem at first glance.
Complaints a small salary at work and plans to change something
If the plans turn into life is wonderful, you've managed to catch a very active person. But if the conversations are not changing as the situation from month to month, the guy's a windbag who can't satisfy their material needs, not to mention about your.
Bragging level of income and leisure (or designer clothes, etc.)
Everything is simple — going compliance requirements from the girl, her earnings should be the same as his, just to match the status.
No tokens, such as flowers and candy
If the young man is motivated by the fact that it's a waste of money, watch out — before you the real skinny, which will not satisfy any your desire. It is necessary to you?
Behavior in the restaurant
Another thing that you should pay attention before to connect the life with the guy, it's his behavior in the restaurant. He invites you out on a date — the classic version. What he means by the proud name of "restaurant"? Not McDonald's? If not, it's not a reason to relax. You should pay attention to its treatment menu, if he asks your opinion, leave a tip.
Instead of give you able to read the menu, it makes you a choice: this or that? Or decides everything for you, he knows your tastes. And the fact that you wanted a completely different — the next time book. This is a clear sign of tyranny. Or, again, stinginess: if your order will be excessively expensive, what's he going to do?
If he offers to pay each separately, is also worth thinking about. Maybe in the West it is a manifestation of emancipation and female independence, but we are not in the West. He was invited after all.
But if instead of inviting in a restaurant, you get a visit to your house? Well, how the man will behave so to speak "on foreign soil" will tell more about him than he can guess. If, already stepping on the threshold, you will see a man in his carelessness and arrogance is a bad sign, often talking about the greed of man. On the other hand, if the guy is considerate, and did not come empty-handed — well, he scored extra points for honesty and generosity.
A departure from tradition
We don't mean that instead of a bouquet to bring a cactus, and the breach more serious: to bring you change, for example, a bottle of soda. If you're a fan of the drink, and he to this bottle brought another bouquet of flowers — everything is in order. But otherwise, he just decided not to waste the extra. What does this mean? Right about greed.
If you invited him to tea, and he starts demanding to eat, or to resent, even worse — watch out — you've met a tyrant. If he comes to visit, he will come to his home? Do you want to become a cook?
Obvious interest in your apartment and its owner. Hardly anyone wants his loved material possessions, for a fat wallet or a separate housing. If you're not, you should think about your choice.
But not so cloudy: if a guy is present a rational streak is good, why would you profligate husband? To spend all the money on expensive wine, although you can get a little bit cheaper and something else to it — not a good idea. Frugality is overall good. But there is something to pay attention to.
Disregard for the rules of healthy eating in favor of profits
We are not talking about the vegetables of winter, but to buy meat dumplings or pasta, to make it cheaper is stupid. To treat stomach ulcers, in ten years, will cost more expensive, and nerves have to spend decently.
He too listened to the advice of his mother, whose presence in your relationship and overwhelming
For example, instead of the two of you to spend a vacation at sea, his mother advises to update the furniture. And it updates your furniture, and you for the whole vacation stay to look for this furniture. Sad picture, isn't it?
Outrage your new clothes
What's he got — until you are spending only your money. And the fact that you just needed a fifth pair of shoes for him will remain to be a paradox. And why would he in it climbs?
Right to choose a husband — a very important task for any girl. And to approach its solution with the mind and understanding of the responsibility placed on your shoulders when choosing. History knows many cases of unhappy marriages: often suffer not only the couple, not suitable to each other, but also their children. Such suffering because you don't need, right? So very carefully think of all the little things that can characterize the nature of your potential husband, in particular, his attitude to money.
