For the second and third time... isn't that strange? Always liked to make love, and now does not want to. Think about why.
Loss of interest in sexual life can have many different causes. If we find the primary, it will be easier to deal with this phenomenon.
Your partner has ceased to be sexually attractive
Gentle, smart and seductive yet so recently, now he's got a tummy, the arms begin to SAG, and the strange pant reminds you of an old man-a neighbor. Of course, love is not for beauty, but sexuality, though, has some options.
Some men allow themselves to relax too much when they feel that their life is unsettled. They admire women's beauty, forgiving myself all the flaws, believing that the woman will do the same. But if we are constantly watching the figure, skin and hair, why men don't send their, albeit small, efforts, to maintain in us the fire of passion!
To speak to the man that he does not excite you, of course, impossible. But you can bring in your life joint training, trip to the dentist, etc., to get rid of those weaknesses men who repulse you.
You started taking pills
When you take the pills, you are in a state that can be defined as the "hormone of pregnancy". As a consequence, the libido may decrease. Discuss this with your gynecologist: you can change the medication will help, or more suited to another method of contraception.
Resentment against the partner
A deep resentment against the partner or discontent they can cause reluctance proximity. And women leave this state much harder than men. A serious quarrel can't finish it by reconciliation in bed. Better, on the contrary, to resolve the conflict, and then make love. Talk to the man that you are not satisfied, explain that you need some time to outlive the problem. Everything will fall into place.
You recently gave birth
Nature has taken care that parents a maximum time was given to the child, especially when he was born recently. Men feel different, while your body just "forgot" that the hormones of desire.
Even if you don't want to have sex, you and your husband have to overcome this. It will take patience, and you desire to revive your libido. It is important for the normal climate in the family, and thus for the happiness of the child.
You're sick
Lack of desire to have sex can be one of the symptoms of diseases such as diabetes mellitus, hypothyroidism, hormonal disorders. It can also be caused by menopause, although it is not a disease. Talk with your doctor, you may need to undergo a series of studies.
You don't feel attractive
Flared complexes on the background of vitamin deficiency or changes in your body shape can affect the libido. If you reject your body, feel sexy, your lover unlikely to be able to help you see "the sky in diamonds".
Try to get a sense of their attractiveness, take care of your body (gym, massage, any cosmetic procedures).
Your relationship has deteriorated
Let it be said that sex is not a deciding factor. However, it is the sex shows your true attitude to the partner, which will not hide and do not replay with a smiling mask everyday. You can pretend to have a happy family, even to each other, but if in sex a disorder, then the collapse of your relationship is a matter of time. Take note of this and try not to delay the solution of the accumulated problems, because one day it may be too late.
