Many spouses are concerned about whether you can avoid the occurs over time cold in the relationship. For many people, living for extended periods in the child does not feel happy, and, as a result of.
Research scientists at Cambridge University show that the way to avoid this really exists. It turns out that quite often hug each other.
Despite the common misconception that the best indicator of a fortress of family bonds and satisfaction of the spouses emotionally is their active sex life, only five percent of families, the number of sexual acts remains the same after several years of living together, usually this number is much lower than in the beginning of the relationship. It turns out that, following this opinion, the remaining ninety-five per cent of families are happy to call anymore. Actually it is not so.
The intensity of the sex life really decreases and this is due, for example, with what partners, are well learned each other, do not feel the initial passion to each other. The novelty is lost in a relationship, closeness with a partner becomes something ordinary. That is why, incidentally, many family psychologists insist that we should pay more attention to the maintenance of mutual interest in this area of life at a high level, to avoid quarrels and even family breakdown.
However scientific studies prove that people living for extended periods together in order to feel the satisfaction with life together, is enough a simple touch or hug. It turns out that happier feel partners in families where physical contact occurs most often, i.e. spouses is a pleasure to touch each other.
From the point of view of scientists, this can be explained by the fact that being in love contributes to the emergence of a very strong emotional connection between people, when enough to see a loved one to blood has been portion of oxytocin, and had a desire physical intimacy. But, to satisfy the same need on an emotional level, it helps to Pat or hug partner.
Interestingly, these studies relate not only to women but to men, while traditionally it was believed that men could obtain satisfaction only through physical contact. It turns out that affection for men as important as for women, and can completely satisfy the need for emotional intimacy.
