The family - a child's first school, and my mother - hisfirst teacher. The student trusts a good teacher and did not consider it necessary to always double-check the information received from it or to question it. One of the first lessons you want to learn a child is that he can rely on his mother and her trust. Thus, it avoids the thankless work to check her every lesson and assignment and doubt in her every word.
The first lesson to be learned littlechild to all subsequent lessons were given to him easily - is unconditional acceptance of authority. The mother should be respected for it, but do not panic ahead of time. The authority - a man who knows about the subject more than his companion, and wise enough not to affect time before other items. A good teacher makes every effort to earn the trust of his disciples the fact that strictly adheres only to provable facts. Subsequently, it can affect risk and trudnodokazuemye items, but only after the students establish themselves in trust for her. Mothers should always choose the lesson that she wants to convey to the child's mind, and it should be at the same time no more emotion than the teacher in the classroom. Do not blame the child, to prove something to him, nag or punish him. It just makes the child to carry out its instructions.
A good teacher when it is necessary, be sure to punish for the offense, but it sees the punishment as something that she does for child, not to the child. mother's relationship with a disobedient child of this can be expressed with the phrase: »I love you too much to allow you to behave this way.»
The sequence is also importantthe quality of a good teacher. Any child will confuse if on Monday and Wednesday, the mother will teach him that two and two make six, and inspire on Tuesdays and Thursdays, that two and two make four. The inconsistency of maternal reactions will cause confusion and panic of the child, in the end he will refuse any attempt to follow any teachings. Instil a child or that fact many times as you need to, he took it. If you mean something specific, tell the kid about it. If you are not sure what you mean, then it is better not to say anything to him. But as soon as you say something, it is strictly stick! It is better to err on the series of disciplinary measures than do the right thing, but inconsistently.
As a teacher, the mother is also responsible forother areas of public education. Its mission - to monitor the development of the child's abilities. A child should be placed in front of big challenges, mindful of the fact that he lives is not just for your own pleasure and joy of personal achievement, but is obligated to use their talents and abilities for the benefit of mankind. His need to educate not a materialist and idealist. And if the mother was able to develop in their child a strong sense of self-esteem, she did not need to worry too much about the lack of refinement of his manners in public places - all this will come with time.
The mother is also responsible for the physicalchild development. Since she is planning a daily diet and prepares a meal, it is necessary to have basic knowledge in the field of healthy nutrition, physiology and lifestyle. Common approach to health will help to protect the family from colds, flu and other diseases, as well as tooth decay. When all family members have good health, it is proof that the mother of a good job with his work family nutritionist.
Finally, the mother is obliged to suggest to the child that he is created in the image of God, and his debt - with God's help and the extent of its abilities the best way to reflect that image.
The first five or six years of lifeIt is extremely important in order to grow up emotionally stable and independent adult. The family atmosphere created by the parents at the time, will have a huge impact on the child's future. However, parental responsibilities dumped on us unexpectedly. Oh, if only we had the time to grow into parenthood!
That is why neither the husband nor the wife should not be considered,like a happy family life - for granted. Both need to prepare for it in good faith and maintain it. They have nothing to lose, but gain if they consciously strive every day to make each other happier. Thus, in the future happiness of the entire family, both will make a greater contribution than they can imagine.
