Самое зрелое из проявлений привязанности — умение отдавать бескорыстно. Альтруизм — это способность пожертвовать чем-то ради другого, не думая при этом о себе. Такова любовь Божья. Бог отдал Своего Сына на смерть ради нас, хотя мы все были грешниками (см. Римлянам 5:8). Альтруизм не знает иных побуждений, иных мотивов, кроме заботы о благе другого человека.

In a sense, the phrase»Child-altruist» may seem a paradox, because the growth process involves greater focus on himself. Infantilism, as a rule, combined with egocentrism - these two properties of nature go hand in hand. Nevertheless, starting from childhood and throughout the life of a person learns to empower others in the good that was given to him (see 2 Corinthians 1: 3-4.).

By being selfless love (nota martyr, but a free and good) to your child, you implement it »fuel» that day will allow him to pour out his love on the other. When a child does something good for you, show you are grateful to him. Praise him for what he sympathized with or helped a friend. Let your child see you selflessly helping others, encourage the same qualities in him. Thus you strengthen it's ability to attachment and strive for the main purpose of education - to make the child a truly loving person.