Marriage, when a husband is older than his wife for a couple of years -It's the usual thing, it does not cause anyone questions ... However, if the age difference is not even 5-6, but 10, 15, 20, 30 years? Is there any chance of a happy marriage in this case?
WE CHOOSE? AEM, WE WILL CHOOSE? AYUT ...
Probably, many have already experienced thatStrong friendly relations can develop between people of different ages - and persist for many years. However, as soon as it comes to such a delicate sphere as love, then the situation looks different. A union of completely different people will always be met more negatively. But this is not the main thing - the main thing is that often such a marriage, despite the initial passion, may turn out to be unhappy. And the greater the difference in the age of husband and wife - the more indignation and misunderstanding surrounding.
So, what attracts not very young men in theYoung women? According to psychologists, there can be several reasons. But the main ones are »the father's complex» (the desire to take care of someone) and the unwillingness to grow old (after all, a young wife is an excellent incentive to keep oneself toned!). As practice shows, husbands whose wives are much younger live longer - the young wife »rejuvenates» themselves, as it were.
And what attracts young girls in the elderlyMen? The most common reasons are a sense of realization and climbing to a higher step (after all, their husband has reached a lot for such years, and so his wife is worth something!) And an increased need for a sense of security. The latter, by the way, is often found in girls who grew up without a father - they and in adult life do not have enough paternal care, and finding an older man, they want to see in him not only the husband, but also the father.
IF THE HUSBAND STA? FOR 10 YEARS OLD
Today, such a situation is a trend rather than aan exception. How often you can meet couples, where she is 20-25, and he is 30-35 years old! And, despite the seeming happiness of the young at first, only the first few years usually pass in harmony.
A man is attracted by youth, spontaneityAnd even naivety of his chosen one, but ... only at first! After the crisis of middle age, he begins to look at her in a new way - and sees how much his wife still lacks life experience.
In this situation, the young wife is not easilyThe task is to accept the husband's doubts and show his adulthood with deeds, not with stormy evidence. If the wife shows understanding - such a marriage can continue to be happy!
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