Sometimes, because of our comments madeemotions or silently to ourselves, men completely discourage the desire to engage with us the love for a long time. These observations may relate to the activity of the partner during sex, inadequate size of his penis, comparisons (any) with another young man. The man is just imprinted in the subconscious mind, and he is afraid of us meet. This gives rise to the problem of eternal excuses, fast sleep and full of sexual inactivity. To solve this problem, we must first of all learn to keep his mouth shut, but what if we »flew» to correct the situation will be quite difficult, as eliminate the fear is much more difficult than during apologize for causing offense. Talk openly with a man, find out what exactly you touched it, apologize and do not try to come up with silly excuses why you blurted out. The word - not a sparrow, fly - you can not catch, so take for granted their guilt and try as quickly as possible to make amends for it. Such fears are not fast, so you have to be patient and gradually prove to your man that he is the best for you. The only thing you have to do it sincerely, to feel your man out, otherwise you will only worsen and call their actions even more rejection and distrust.
? Irritability is also one of the fActors that affect a man's sexual desire. In the concept of irritability in this case, the value of dislike for your specific actions, behavior, appearance, manner of speaking is embedded. Certainly, irritability can be caused not specifically by your actions, but by the same problems at work. In this case, you will play the passive role of the victim, on which these emotions »merge». But now it comes about the fact that it is YOUR actions that are the main irritant for a man. You can irritate your loved one with your inappropriate phrases in an area in which you are absolutely not competent, inadequately respond to any manifestations of reality, put your man in an uncomfortable position before important people for him, be obtrusive, rude and generally behave inappropriate situations Way. In this case, he has a negative impression about you, you cause him a range of negative emotions, disappointing. Experiencing such a set of negative feelings, a man has lost the desire to make you feel good and engage in sex with you, since you do not represent a desirable and attractive object for him (although there are some that even more start from negative emotions). To solve this problem it is necessary to reconsider the actions, to think on what your actions beloved negatively reacts, and to try to eliminate them. However, if you feel that your behavior is quite adequate and he is irritated by trifles, be patient, do not meddle in conflict and let the person take rest. Perhaps he is just tired of the worries and your society is temporarily bothering him. We are all people and sometimes we want to be alone with ourselves. This desire must be able to respect and condescending to it.
The above major psychologicalFactors that cause the opposite sex unwillingness to make love. They are all interlinked and can arise from one another. You have to understand that your man is in need of support, understanding and caring, as any normal person. In order to be desirable enough to be a beautiful, well-groomed and cleanly (these factors also play an important role in sexual attraction). We must first of all be a loving woman, always ready to go to a meeting and support their loved one.
