Divorce or to save the family?

In every family there comes a time when relationships begin to deteriorate. Perfect world only happens in the movies. Spouses thinking about divorce. But what good can be after divorce? Another search partner, pangs of conscience, and if we have children? Even if you have someone in mind, not the fact that someone after a certain time will not have the same problems. And psychologists say that necessarily arise because we attract partners with similar flaws. To change, as the saying goes "the flea" nobody wants. The more you already know the habits of your partner, and the new will be that will probably upset you even more. Much smarter to go through the difficulties together. Each day, performing a feat for a loved one.

Of course, it's easy to throw a relationship in search for the perfect partner. And you try to go in the train of eternal fidelity all his life and whatever happens to keep the love. Of course, it's easy to change trains in search of romance, only to make a pleasant stop and jump out as soon looms difficult. But the family – this is something that is built over the years based on the philosophy of marriage. But the philosophy of it is this: to overcome disputes and grievances, to find ways to resolve conflict, live in peace and harmony and in sorrow and in joy.

So born family traditions, rules, etiquette. What makes every cell of society. For example, someone in the house decided to eat in the kitchen, while others in the hall in front of the TV. Because a long time ago on this soil there was a misunderstanding in the couple. Once one spouse has decided that in front of the TV the absorption of food seems to taste better. Or in one family, it is customary to hug when meeting, and the other only to greet each other a slight nod. This is the result of the personalities of the spouses. And if one pulls to cuddle and the other wants to stay at a distance, some of the spouses have to control myself or get used to being relaxed.

Usually have to give the woman, because she's more emotionally grounded. That is able to adapt to any situation. This is the essence of female nature is to concatenate the collapsing elements to make contact, to hold on to an atmosphere, to find a compromise.