The tendency to condemnation

Category: Advice on all occasions | 03 ноября 2015, 04:28

Another trend that impedes integrationgood and bad sides of the character, the Bible calls predosuzhdeniem. This tendency to overly emotionally condemn any negative. Predosuzhdenie manifests itself in anger, to impose a sense of guilt, rejection of love and forgiveness. In the relations of parents to children predosuzhdenie showed anger or crushing the child's sense of guilt because of the slightest offense. For more information predosuzhdeniya dynamics will be discussed in the chapter devoted to the problem of conscience. Now we will touch upon this issue in so far as predosuzhdenie prevents perception of reality.

If a child is afraid that it will be deprived of its disadvantagesparental love, and bring upon him the anger overwhelm his guilt, he did not dare to admit their flaws, will be hidden in all the ill, clutching at the first available fig leaf. Man will try all means to conceal failure if it threatens to expose the loss of parental love or anger. Predosuzhdenie, anger, shame, lack of forgiveness prevent the child to integrate his »bad side». For example, if Joe is struggling with temptation and fear that it will be blamed already but that he is tempted, he will prefer to hide their suffering. Good advice parents will find in the Bible: »Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamor, and evil with all malice be put away from you; but be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you »(Ephesians 4: 31-32).