Some parents fear that, constantly reminding the child to work, providing appropriate samples in their behavior and raising the bar of requirements, they will grow out of him, not noticing anything around other than their work. Yes, now divorced, robotopolis, but reasonable, which pays great attention to training of their child parents does not achieve this result. Usually, people with too much work fills the vacuum that is the result of a deficiency in other areas of personal development. If the development of character is observed a balance between affection, responsibility and reality, and the talents of the child, and his willingness to work will take its proper place in the overall structure.

Some people are looking for work in the refuge from fearsome intimacy, compensate for their inability to attachment, thus avoiding problems with setting boundaries, stifle the anxiety caused by thoughts of possible failure. If these problems are solved, and work is not so absorbs an adult and bears great fruit. Work is a good servant but a bad master.

Mastering skills is one of the most enjoyable for parents the areas of development, for here we best see the results of education.

But we must remember that integrity does not replace conscience. Another important aspect in the development of nature — formation of conscience — we will discuss in the next article.