My friend Tony wanted his daughter was a good girl. A good child becomes when education puts the right goal, namely the establishment mature character. If at the time of growing and maturing character,people will be able to take its place in the world and function successfully in all areas of life. The major consideration in raising children is the formation of character.
But what is character? Some people believe that »a man of character» - a solid, responsible person, able to cope with their lives and do good. For other character - a child's personality, quality, give it a unique, such as a variety of interests, most of the activity, a sense of humor. Thus, the character is equivalent to a kind of »papillary lines of» the emotional life of a child - he was the only one and there is no other, is exactly like him.
Man with a mature character and indeed are inherentintegrity, responsibility and courage. However podharakterom we understand something more: the internal structure of our soul, those of its capacity, which determines our behavior in life. In other words, character - a set of abilities that enable us to live as God intended for us. Reality constantly presents to uscertain requirements. For example, we have good contact with people, keep their word, to admit mistakes, to solve their problems. The success or failure when confronted with these requirements of life shows the level of character development.
Each of us has encountered in life people, not badbehave well to cope with their tasks, but have defects of character. These flaws - susceptibility to bad mood, tendency to withdraw into themselves, self-centeredness - and then stick out its ugly head and undermine the experience of such a person. The most common source of character flaws to be found in childhood, adulthood, we find only previous omissions. That is why it is so great is the responsibility of parents; since childhood - a time when the foundations all the strengths and weaknesses of character. We're not trying to scare you this warning, we just remind you the obvious truth, that you put more effort in helping the child to form his character. If you lose sight of this important aspect, you will reap the bitter fruits of their omission in later life, it is better to learn unpleasant things now than when it is too late. The Bible teaches us to use all the features because »the days are evil» (Ephesians 5:16).
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рано Рэндалл понял, что он может оправдать перед своими отягченными комплексом вины родителями практически любую свою неудачу. Они не хотели проявлять жестокость по отношению к своему сыночку. Рэндалл приносил домой плохие характеристики и низкие оценки, но уверял родителей, что злые учителя несправедливы к нему. И мамочка с папочкой спешили к директору школы и просили его разобраться с тем или иным преподавателем.
У Рэндалла сложился характер слабый в области личной ответственности. К моменту поступления в старшие классы он стал человеком, не способным ничего добиться, но сваливающим вину за любые свои проблемы на окружающих, судьбу, обстоятельства и родителей. Этот изъян в развитии характера дорого обошелся Рэндаллу. Из-за неуспеваемости он потерял друзей, не закончил колледж, упустил возможности для занятий спортом.
The very essence of parenting isthat you help your child to form a character. The character - is, if anything, a set of spiritual and emotional skills, tools, provide your child a success in adult life. Whatever benefits you may have provided to the child - a cloudless childhood, the best school, church community, youth camp - they all will be lost if they do not contribute to the formation of character. How many stories do we know about the people who have received a child every chance, but at the root of ruin all of these features, the children do not have enough strength of character to adequately meet the vicissitudes of life, and break at some point in his career, marriage or education of their children! How many people who possessed great talent, many gifts, nothing has been able to achieve!
