Maybe your kid suffers because it's rejected school friends and peers living in the neighborhood. Almost every day you have to listen to tearful complaints like: "they don't like me". How to solve a similar problem?

A typical parent might tell the child that he should not think so. Sometimes dads and moms Jurat child for such emotions. Avoid this mistake. Encourage him to share with you my offense. If you tell him that he must not yield to those feelings which are in fact experiencing, your advice will be a kind of "emotional stopper" or plug, denying that the baby is experiencing. Instead, use active listening skills, which you'll learn in the next Chapter. Do not attempt to resolve the problem at this stage. At the critical moment the child is too upset to listen to your solutions. But the freer it will be to Express their emotions, the more you will have chances to identify the true cause of arising troubles.

Through active listening to identify the main cause of the trouble; then you can easily find the solution that will help your child develop necessary skills and to gain recognition from their peers — because that was what he so desperately seeks.

Does your child have any qualities or skills that it reject other children? Is there something that contributes to the development of negative emotions? Perhaps your child is overly sensitive? Although you should not ask these questions out loud to find the answer you need.

Teach your child the ability to make friends with other children. You can invite his peers to spend some time in your family or to go with you on a picnic. This will contribute to the development of this friendship.

If your child is overly touchy, it means that he has low self-esteem, and you need to actively develop his specialization, to compensate for the feeling of abandonment. Teach him to not be depressed, but always find a way out of difficult situations!