Marriage

Category: the Art of being a parent | 27 октября 2015, 13:20

Single parents hope to enter into a new marriage.

Marriage is one of the most important human institutions, and to find a spouse is through meetings and courtship. However, single parents have to treat novels and courtship differently than they were before, when they still had no children. The main thing to remember for the existence of dates, and to separate his personal life from the process of education.

Dating and courtship are intended to ensure that two people can understand, they want to marry or not. They need time to communicate, they need to understand the tastes and preferences of each other, etc. These meetings are not tailored to meet your emotional needs, and should not even attempt to use their
in these purposes. Partners must protect their own and others freedom, until you come to the conclusion that they are ready for a deeper commitment to convergence.


Single parents sometimes tend to take his new friend with children, they want everything immediately took a liking to each other.

The need for a complete family overshadows common sense. In other cases, women expect that the fan will become a source of emotional support although to look to be friends, not lover. We believe that courtship, especially in the early stages, may not serve to satisfy deep emotional needs. A novel by definition is unstable, it is the experiment in which both sides are looking at each other, not even daring to take on the challenging commitments. A Platonic relationship is more stable and reliable source of love and comfort. You need to be careful and not to rush to engage their fan relationships with children.


Dangerous situation, when a child begins to depend on your fan, attaches to it; if the relationship breaks, it's destructive impact on the child's needs in confidence, stability, protection from loneliness and even on its ability to respond for the events of his life.

Try to get pleasure from your personal life and don't hide her away from her baby, but watch carefully the extent to which your child comes into its own communication and relationship with your fan. Many experts recommend even not to involve the child in this relationship, it will not come about the wedding.

As deepen your relationship with your partner, you may increasingly involve the child, but the parent functions, your partner should take on only after marriage. Your personal life and your relationship with the child should be strictly separated from each other.