For centuries siblingsThey love each other and interact, fight and compete, rob each other things and tease each other, gossiping and keep secrets, fight and make peace, play together and avoid each other. In the Bible, mythology, fairy tales, songs, dances and plays, there are numerous illustrations of such universal phenomena such as consent or, on the contrary, rivalries and tensions between siblings.

Each child in the family wants to be sure to love

and attention of their parents, regardless of whetherhow many children live in the house. The eldest child is difficult to understand why he had the appearance of a little brother or sister's parents are paying less love, affection and attention. In addition, one child more difficult to share parental love and attention than others, and even if the family has one child, he must realize that mom and dad do not belong to him alone but also to each other.

Psychologists recognize that how the brothers andSisters learn to be friends with each other, will depend largely on how they will get along with other people, walking through life. Although feelings of jealousy and guilt are an integral part of the joint development of children, in cases when the parents are not sufficiently strongly suppress manifestations of jealousy and rivalry at the very beginning of the educational process, then it is extremely difficult to reverse the destructive patterns of behavior, have evolved in children.

Ревность — это правда жизни. Вопрос в том, как вы, родители, реагируете на соперничество между вашими детьми? Как вы относитесь к ссорам и дракам между ними? Зачастую родители устают от всего этого, выходят из себя, огорчаются и не могут последовательно удовлетворять потребности детей. Тем не менее дети часто полагаются на то, что родители вовремя их остановят, поскольку подсознательно они нуждаются в родительском сдерживании. Необходимо положить предел соперничеству между родными братьями и сестрами.