Let's talk about isterikah that love sometimes hold our kids.
Whence feet grow children's tantrums? They do it by accident. At an early age a child has to learn a lot. He learns to wait to relive the frustrations to come when he say no ». Sometimes when the baby for the first time, rolls his tantrum, he completely loses control over himself. The power of your own anger strikes it. What happens to him? This had never happened before. Sometimes a child gets scared myself to death if everything happens very quickly and suddenly. From that moment a child begins to understand what it does, that it is fully in control of his emotions and you. Because using tantrums he has better from you all, that neither wish.
And why should a child behave this way? Having released his discontent, he feels great relief. But still the main motive of hysterics and child's lament is to produce an unusual effect on you! ? The child sees that adults become tense because of hysterics, are frightened and confused. And most importantly - they fulfill all his desires!
How to deal with children's Charly?
In no event shall encourage these tantrums! The most important thing is to make the first step and take a firm decision. Tell yourself that your child will never get that requires by zakatyvanija tantrums. Even if you've tried to bribe him, won't allow. Enjoy a better practical side. When the hysterics, to do everything that it was over. But that doesn't mean you have to give the child everything he asked for. The choice is yours. But, you do not need to go away and not pay attention to a child. Some do. Or include the child into another room to avoid seeing this ...
It will be much more effective to prevent the followingTantrums. When it's over, do not leave it without attention. ? The child must be punished. ? The child needs to be explained that it is impossible to express his anger simply. So when he calms down, give him a lesson. He should apologize, say what happened to him and why he behaved like this. The punishment may be different: let him sit in his room or wait for your arrival from the store. It can also be deprived of watching TV or picking up your favorite toy for a while.
You need to plan your life, if you want to make it easier. You need to track causes of children's tantrums. It's a surefire indicator that both you and the baby are going through a stressful situation. To do so, to such situations as possible. When tantrums occur in stores, do not go shopping with your child for a long time. Or reduce to the minimum stay in them. Best of all you can see and understand this, watching day after day for your child's behavior and studying it.
Let's not put a big total, how are we going to deal with this nightmare.
- Any effort to let your child know that he will never get that requires using the tantrums.
- If this still happened, soothe him in any way. After he calms down, talk to him.
- If you see that your child start take attempts to prevent a tantrum. But better-try to avoid situations that trigger your child. Explain to him that he should act differently.
- Your child can live and without hysterics! If you are going to behave correctly in these moments, it soon will be held and a child will stop rolling » concerts. Listen to your child!
