Double the joy - the birth of twins

Category: Children | 23 февраля 2016, 23:57

Рождение ребенка – огромное счастье для родителей, а рождение близнецов – счастье вдвойне. Мамам и папам мальчиков и девочек, которые находятся вместе с самого зачатия, необходимо знать, что их детки особенные и в том, как они растут и развиваются есть свои нюансы, которые нужно учитывать при воспитании близнецов.


Twins do not always like each other, like twowater drops. And even if at first glance, the differences are very small, they still exist in facial features, facial expressions and voice. It is also natural that the different characters and the twins, their tastes and inclinations. With age, by the way, these differences tend to become significant. Therefore, it is natural, if Mom and Dad on the one hand try to see the individuality in each of the two children, and on the other hand, will not succumb to stereotypes that are always paired one evil, the other good, obedient to one, the other harmful.

Such evaluation characteristics, if the childwill hear them from childhood, can lead to deformation of character. Better just not to tell the kids that someone from them on how many minutes are born earlier, in order to avoid reactions of rivalry and conflict over seniority.

The primary school is unlikely to sharetwins. It is proved that their identity at this age is not yet complete, so without each other it will be more difficult to absorb the material and its focus. But in high school is to trust in this matter the class teacher who will advise the best way to learn the twins - together or separately based on their observations of them.