Children need to understand that not only are good in themselves. The presence of loved ones is valuable. This understanding comes in the first year of life, and then it deepens and expands. One sign of maturity is the ability to notice and appreciate the love that others show to us, their victims, they go for us. In the child develop these important character traits, like gratitude for the benefit received and the ability to find friends that will treat him as well. If you do not teach your child to value other people, and he's at a Mature age will enjoy them and then leave "superfluous." Such people easily leave the relationship if they are uncomfortable, causing pain to everyone around and one is not spared. They believe that the relationship exist only for the sake of their interests, and the partner has no rights, nor our own feelings. In another case, such children make connections unintelligible without studying the nature of the next friend. As adults, they continue to have trouble finding reliable people. This promiscuity leads them to cling to irresponsible, charming, but prone to betrayal or controlling partners.

Children must learn to recognize the character of another person. However, it is difficult for parents to teach the child to evaluate someone else's character if they themselves do not really know how to do it.

Help your child to become a man, friendly to people, talk to him, listen to him. Help him to discuss your relationship, your feelings for each other. Show appreciation when your child does something good, and, in turn, ask him gratitude. Let him see how you perceive his actions. If his behavior hurts your feelings or cause anger, tell him about it. Do not ask the child to take care of you, to solve the problem, but firmly let them know that you will not let her treat you disrespectful, to harm you. Let your child know that he favorite and the only one, however, has no advantages over other members of the family. He is one friendly team, that's all.