The main task at the responsibility of the education inchild - is to establish boundaries. Boundaries protect the personal territory of the people; invisible, but they are no less real, they determine where the responsibility of one person ends and begins the responsibility of others. Boundaries allow you to understand that your, and that - someone else's, for that you are responsible for and what not. Boundaries help you prevent an evil which otherwise could happen to you. For example, denying the controlling partner the right to command, you set the limits.
The boundaries established by God Himself. They are inherent in the nature of God: Father, Son and Holy Spirit are one and yet clearly separated from each other. Creator distinguishes itself from creation: »For as the heavens are above the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and My thoughts than your thoughts» (Isaiah 55: 9). God makes it clear that He loves and hates that, »For I, the Lord, love justice, I hate robbery» (Isaiah 61: 8).
We, the image of God, also need boundaries. We must clearly define what it is we who are responsible, »For every man shall bear his own burden» (Galatians 6: 5). We must be honest and candid when discussing what is good and what is bad, speaking the truth in love (see Ephesians 4:15} We must reject what God rejects:.. »It's a criminal I not cleave it to me» ( Psalm 100: 3).
In his book »Barriers» ( »Myrtle», 1999), wediscussed that the development of freedom and self-control necessary to set boundaries. We also considered when it comes to install them in dealing with irresponsible and prone to control people. Article category »How to raise a wonderful child"
provide the necessary methodology to help preserve and love, and the ability to manage their lives and time.
After some time, the parents asked uswrite an article about the boundaries in relationships with children. They said: »I do not want a child growing up as I did. I need a manual that taught me to set boundaries. » And we wrote the manual »Children: the border, the border!» ( »Triad», 2002).
Эта статья не поможет вам контролировать ребенка, заставить его хорошо себя вести. Да это и невозможно! Но научит Вас структурировать жизнь ребенка таким образом, чтобы он мог свободно принимать решения, и последствия этих решений станут для него наградой за его ответственность или наказанием за безответственность. Родители должны устанавливать правильные границы в отношениях с ребенком, а ребенок, наткнувшись на эти границы, начнет их инкорпорировать.
Accustomed to the boundaries, the child develops as a conscientious and responsible person.
you set the border converted into a structure which the child learns and incorporates all.
Reading about how to educate a child responsibility, you will again encounter the idea of borders, because without them, no responsibility is unthinkable.
