Happiness of each person in his hands, and a child's happiness is in the hands of his parents. Very often mom and dad, wishing that their favorite kid was happy, I try to give him as much as possible, absolutely without hesitation, but whether it's actually the child. Especially very bright this desire manifests itself in the parents, who had various hardships in childhood. Maybe someone of them was lacking in the love, warmth and care from their parents and they try to give it to the child. Ever had a childhood full of hardship, absent a sufficient number of toys, which they had dreamed. In this case, the parents bestow their child with expensive gifts, while in fact their kid needs is another...

Adults acting in good faith, solving all the problems of his beloved heir, protecting him from from all sorts of worries and difficulties, indulging all his whims. As a result the child can grow with confidence that all and will always treat it as, will ply the love and attention, fulfilling all his desires. With such attitudes, the little man comes in this huge world where there are completely different, sometimes very strict rules, where everyone cares primarily about the satisfaction of their needs.

According to their own needs and desires that adults often fail to see or hear your own child, do not understand that the most important thing is to give him love, understanding and absolute acceptance with all its advantages and disadvantages, interests, freedom of choice. It is important to find this "Golden mean" to love a child, but not to "strangle" his love, to give him freedom, but to impose their own views and beliefs. It is necessary not to raise a child, but only to help him to grow, to develop, to become a whole person.

Parents can be very difficult to determine that fine line between excessive manifestation of his love and care or its lack. In this case, come to the aid of the Council of a competent professional psychologist, who can tell, without restricting interior space of the kid, help him grow up happy, loved, confident person, enjoy and admire the surrounding world. After all, happy child grows only in a happy harmonious family.