Sometimes life brings us such surprises that we expect less of everything. Very often the long relationship between a man and a woman are starting to crumble right before our eyes. Not only friends and relatives surrounding them, but beloved cannot understand what is happening to them. Love is replaced by hatred, passion — but about antipathy happy lived together days recall as the most miserable time. From the outside it looks as if the lovers entered the black bar life.

Many problems and misunderstandings can be found on their life's journey. Why did such a difficult relationship they seemed another conflict that is sure to end reconciliation and passionate kisses, and now it turns out the final rupture of relations. What is the cause of this behavior and how to figure out which side is the truth, is not even a qualified psychologist for advice to which very often approached by young, wishing to keep love in their relationship.

If you threw a guy

If fate so that you better live separately, but you can't overcome his feelings and faithfully dreaming of a tender reunion of their hearts, try to analyze the situation. If you don't really know how to get the guy that you threw, do not rush to seek help and advice to strangers.

Stay alone with herself, remember all the pleasant moments of your mutual relationship, think about the causes of your latest razmolvok and you must be able to make certain conclusions for themselves.
First of all, try to understand the reason why you threw a loved one. It is no secret that if the guy next to you good, you never leave. Many women can not understand why they were alone. They so cared about her fiancé: felt for the quality of its food, its beautiful and stylish appearance, were interested in his work and so on. It's one thing if the girls do it unobtrusively, without limiting the freedom of men, but it is another thing when a young person trying to please his beloved, has received undue attention. The men don't like it, they, being a strong floor, and want them to remain. They want to take care of a woman, its weak half. It is not surprising that one of the greatest days as a young man, weary of such guardianship, just goes away. In this case, a woman's worth to reconsider their views on life and relationship with your loved one. Because stepping down once, he can leave and the second, but forever.

If you threw a guy, because in his other life, you need to gather all her feminine wisdom and intelligently take advantage of it. In this situation, you can help less tantrums, tears and trying to sort out your relationship. It can only exacerbate the situation. If you are willing to forgive a man his misconduct and agreed to take it back (think twice whether you afterwards), you have a difficult task: to prove to him that you're better than his girlfriend.

What can a girl do to regain her beloved:
1. Maintain self-control in all situations. Do not play the scene of jealousy and show others how bad you are.
2. Continue to communicate with your loved one as if nothing had happened. Your resentment is an insult to your heart, not behavior. Smile.
3. Become his best friend.
4. Allow the guy to compare your relationship and relationship with his new passion. The advantage is in your hands. You know him much better than his newly elected one.
5. Do not lose control over what is happening.
6. Your behavior should in no case be intrusive.
7. Do not infringe on the interests of your chosen one.
8. No matter how angry you are, do not insult or humiliate him.
9. Become a close friend of the newly formed couple. Being next to them, you will be easier to control the situation.

10. Wait until the young lady begins to be jealous of you and do unreasonable deeds.
11. Watch your boyfriend's behavior, but be very careful.
12. Do not let him pushed you to the background. You have known each other for a long time. You can imagine his further actions.
13. Rolling scenes of jealousy, the girl will begin to limit the freedom of men. Yes, and this strong sex loves least.

As soon as this happens, stay close. You will be the first to tell your ex-boyfriend about it. Further actions depend only on you. Be smart, wise and prudent. All in your hands.