Referring to the classics of Russian literature, one can notDo not mention product А.С. Pushkin »The Snowstorm». Let's remember what events were described there. Lost in winter weather a man accidentally met and married a girl who never waited for her fiancé. Haste, poor lighting in the church, terrible weather did not give the girl the opportunity to think about her decision. But it was already late. The stranger, so unexpectedly become her husband, disappeared into the night. They happened to meet after many years and fell in love with each other. The woman simply admitted that she was married, but does not know with whom. It looks like a trick of fate, is not it?

The concept and meaning of the wedding

A ritual is called a wedding, afterWhich, the couple is considered one in the physical and spiritual terms. After this, a new life begins, nothing will be like before. And it does not matter, the wedding took place in earnest or in jest. Therefore, to decide whether to get married or not is a much more complicated task than, say, the process of choosing Restaurants for a wedding, Which, incidentally, also gives young people a lot of headaches.

Many couples, having made a decision about the wedding, do not realize that this is forever. Especially young people who gave consent to marriage at a very young age. What is »forever» when you are only 17-18 years old?

After passing the wedding ceremony, the macaw is automaticallyConnects to the so-called Christian Egregor. This concept denotes the relationship between the smaller and the larger. In other words, it is the power of what people believe. The more believers, the stronger the egregor. In this case, each religious group has its own egregor. The more members of the group, the stronger the faith. Christianity is one of the largest and strongest religions in the world, for this reason the wedding couple is under the very strong influence of egregor.

What gives the young family a wedding? First and foremost, it is an agreement to follow the basic principles of the Christian family: humility, responsibility, obedience. The main goal is the birth of children. Here and there are stumbling blocks.

If a couple lives a normal family life, chances areThe appearance of children is very great. In most cases, it will be healthy, pretty babies, although there are exceptions. ? The powerful influence of egregor contributes to the formation of full-fledged children.

According to biblical canons, husband and wife areOne flesh. And the truth is, how often we hear that the spouses can feel each other from a distance. However, this phenomenon can be observed not only in wedding couples, but also in those who live together for a long time. Nevertheless, the ceremony of wedding strengthens this phenomenon.

The power of the wedding

At the time of the rite, actions are taken,Aimed at connecting the pair at all levels. They become an entity with a single soul, while preserving each of their own bodies. Imagine the situation of the gap. If the essence is to take away one part, is it still a holistic organism or will it always be something to miss? Rather, the second option. Therefore, the married couple, having made a decision on divorce, will suffer greatly. The search for another partner in this case is often unsuccessful. Agree that this does not add to the wedding ritual of attractiveness.

In the Bible there is such a concept »will stick to his wifehis». What associations do you have? The pair was cemented with glue, velcro, scotch, plasticine and so on. But after all each person is individual, and not always relations in the family are positively formed. In which case, a person is always free to leave and start a new life. However, in the situation of the wedding couple everything is much more complicated. Just get up and go here does not work, the wounds from parting will heal very long and unpleasant. This circumstance makes the ritual of the wedding unattractive in the modern world.

Particularly difficult can be the process of parting,If there are already children. They provide the family a very strong connection with the egregor. For this reason, even if very difficult difficulties arise in a couple, divorce will be very difficult, almost impossible. Fairly often there are married couples who get along very well together, but they can not part. This is a direct proof of the connection with the egregor. The words in the Bible confirm this: »So what God has joined together, let man not separate» Matt. 19: 6.

Treason in a married marriage

As for betrayal in the wedding couple, everything hereToo far is not so simple. According to church rules, it is possible to carry out the reverse process of the wedding (dethronement), if one of the spouses has changed. But imagine the pain of betrayal in a normal pair, reinforced many times. Despite all these draconian tortures, it will still be very, very difficult to leave. In this case, the pain is experienced by both spouses. Even if as a result of incredible efforts will manage to leave, it is unlikely to succeed in creating a new, strong family.

There is an opinion that after the betrayal of ChristianityMarriage is automatically canceled, but this is misleading. The influence of egregor continues to actively contribute to the preservation of the family. In confirmation of this, we can quote the words of the priest Mikhail Samokhin, published on one of the relevant sites. The priest confirmed that the only unforgivable sin is an unrepentant sin. If the couple is ready to forgive each other and go to confession, the situation can be corrected. The main thing is to try not to repeat such situations again.

To get married or not to get married?

Wedding is not a panacea for familyConflicts, does not guarantee the happiness of the coffin of life and does not prevent mistakes and sins, it works to preserve the family and the continuation of the family. This is the only meaning of this ritual.

Both partners must agree to the wedding,Otherwise, it is better not to conduct this ritual. A young couple should realize that she takes on serious obligations and responsibilities. In the case of a mutual desire to marry you can after many years of living together.