Matching: who to approach?
• Focusing on the customer's requirements. The matchmaker asked to describe the qualities that person is looking for in the chosen one, and the traits that he categorically rejects. If the requirements are too high, the conversation carried on their adjustment to the customer yet met his partner. Often people do not know themselves who they want. Some people underestimate the requirements and asked to find »at least someone.» Others give a vague response: smart, kind, beautiful. For this stage and need a detailed interview to clearly identify who is looking for a customer.
• On the basis of his status and profession. It's not snobbery: a female academician really will be difficult to meet with a mechanic (although there are exceptions). Background is also important: it is easier converge people who grew up on some books, movies, impressions.
BASIC Psychoanalysis matchmaking
There are many theories that facilitate the work of the matchmaker. For example, the theory of human archetypes: the woman-child and woman-woman are completely different, and, accordingly, they are suitable opposite partners. »I was happy as a child, when the kitchen was the aroma of fresh pies» - the marker: so says the man who appreciates women who know how to create comfort. »I want so much for someone to care! I even started a cat, talk with him »- a clear allusion to issuing the typical woman-mother, capable of becoming the perfect pair of the above applicant.
• Thanks to the knowledge of psychology. During the interview, the matchmaker pays attention to what is said. Creative individuals, even if carried out technical work, give themselves, talking about life and hobbies. Responsible social climbers, who in the early stages swear that they love to sit back and go, just describe your typical day - and with them all at once it will be clear.
• Evaluating and sexy womana wealthy man. The criterion of non-principal, but with meaning. We have quite a traditional society where many women dream about the role of hostess, and men - on the role of breadwinner. Of course, attractive girls matchmaker to the old rich will not send (if valued reputation). But it is, of course, take into account this point, if asked to clients.
ABOUT FEMALE WHO? ASTE AND MALE ZAP? OSAX
As you know, in our country there is a demographic problem: a lot of women, few men. But the well-groomed, optimistic and independent choice of the fair sex have always been.
In men, among the requirements for a potential girlfriendLife at 1 th place as expected is its attractiveness, including sexual. The second important point: »it should not add problems.» Over time, the requests are not changed. Of course, youth is always a price, and girls 25-35 years in marriage agencies are always welcome. But the age of 40+ is quite promising, and in women over 50 the chances are quite high too. It is only necessary to break away from the couch and take a step forward, stop suffering and start acting. And then fate (with the help of a matchmaker or not) you will find.
