…ПОМОЧЬ ЕМУ РАЗОБРАТЬСЯ С ФИНАНСАМИ. Acting as financial advisor, andnot from a position of »I will decide your problems, most importantly - share them with me.» Many young people really tend to view their parents as an unlimited source of funds - they always help out, help and support.
If the child is obviously not able to handle money(Spend the entire salary, bought on credit expensive equipment or constantly borrowing money from relatives), sit down together to vote it real knowledge in the area of finance and share the basic rules of money management.
It's not as difficult as it seems: for example, teach him to write down the cost, to plan ahead, and to postpone major spending 10% of any income received in reserve. Sadly, children still have to face the results of his own mistakes, to gain experience and learn to act reasonably. While you're there and have the opportunity to give advice - the advice and limit: pay attention to the child that you and his father are not ready to give him a permanent subsidy.
Important! Remind your child that if he hopes sooner ortoo late to get a mortgage in a safe bank and with favorable terms, he will have to take care not only about their financial status, but also to have a good credit history.
…ПОМОЧЬ С ПОИСКАМИ РАБОТЫ, НО НЕ ИСКАТЬ РАБОТУ ЗА НЕГО.
Statistics states that adult children in 2 times more likely to still live in the parental home, because they can not find a permanent job. Your desire to help in any way to clear the search.
But it is better to offer assistance in the preparation orediting job, but do not look for suitable vacancies, tell me where to find interesting internships or grants, but please apply yourself. And a lot of times think before recommending a son or daughter as an employee to their relatives or friends: do it only if you are 100% sure. Child Plans may change or it may not be too diligent worker, and embarrassing in the end you will.
Important! Do not scold the child for the career of failure - the more you do it, the lower his self-esteem drops and the less his energy and confidence to continue to search for work.
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We offer to study 10 signs that you were too caring parent. If you agree with at least five statements, it's time for your child to float freely!• The best moment of your day - the sound of a key turning in the lock: cheers, child at home!
• You do not mind to cook for the whole family, even late at night: so you are at least sure that he eats regularly.
• You again start to clean themselves in the children, because there is a mess, but you insist on embarrassing cleaning.
• You are seriously concerned about how your son or daughter cope with their responsibilities at work.
• Ребенок уже работает полный день, а вы еще ни разу не попросили его внести часть квартплаты.
• You begin to irritate a little money issue - all expenses are on you with her husband, but you're out of habit regularly toss the child a thousand or two »pocket money».
• Son of Man to sleep leads and introduces herwith you. The following week, he gives another girl - and introduces again. A hairdryer she enjoys yours, by the way! The last milk from the refrigerator goes into her cup of coffee.
• When your children's friends come to visit you, you will no doubt join their company.
• Your daughter sees things as a free opportunity to diversify their style of dress. You are no longer outraged.
• Deep down you are afraid that the day will come - and the child will tell you that moves.
