Another aspect of growing up - learn to understandreciprocity relations. This ability develops in the early school years. We need to understand that a partner in a relationship does not exist solely for the sake of the child, he has his own needs, which should also satisfy. In relationships it is necessary to invest all of himself. Everything is going well, and both sides are improved in their relationship as long as the shared responsibility for them. If a child sees his relationship with his parents in terms of their own interests only, and later it will face serious conflicts with people. Good people do not want to deal with him, people with serious problems will allow him to use them - as a result of his spiritual growth stops completely.
You must enter and limitations, and awards,regulating the degree of participation in your child's daily life, the measure of understanding of the concerns and feelings of other family members. So the foundations of responsible relations. Ask your child:
«Расскажи, как у тебя прошел день в школе, а потом не забудь и нас спросить, как прошел наш день». Не поощряйте дурные порывы и эгоизм. Если ребенок не желает интересоваться другими людьми, это должно повлечь за собой определенные последствия. Взаимная любовь подразумевает опыт и практику отношений.




