To see, or rather hear the vicious schemeIt helps psychologist. But sometimes it turns out to find herself with the help of a diary. If you understand why you are so worried about the alleged imbalance, will get a chance to put relations on a new level.

Where to begin? From attention to your feelings. Yes, you feel deprived, and you should not be ashamed of it. ? I think so, so the problem exists. Only she is likely not in a partner, but in a game in which you are both involved. But its rules can be changed.

Describe a specialist or on the paper thatworried. Look at it from his own hand and try to understand, to whom it is addressed. What betrays emotion - a feeling of powerlessness, bitterness of separation, shame? And suddenly you are faced with them as a child?

The purpose of this practice - get in touch with their ownpain, give her a chance to be lived. alone with a Can it be done? I do not know yet the person is important to be heard. When you see in the eyes of another compassion, much easier to understand: yes, it was, but I can accept it and no longer need protection.

And then what? And then as before - a man still be foolish to give gifts or forget to wash the dishes. But it will no longer bother you, invisible load your expectations will disappear, and the system returns to equilibrium. Relationship -Our mirror image. And although you can not alter the other, a change in you will necessarily affect what is happening in your pair.

Content:

1. ? Count, yes, not that;
2. false accusation;
3. Bonjour Tristesse (You read that section).