Modern research shows that children andadult, self-respecting, well cope with life's problems, rarely stumble and do not go through life to the touch. But what is self-esteem? This mental representation of oneself, formed as a result of feedback from others for many years and in many different life situations

People who respect and love yourself, always confidenttheir abilities, are satisfied with their life and work. They are not afraid to take risks and try something new, because they believe in themselves, in their own strength. If they are unsuccessful, they are coping with it and not castigate himself mercilessly consciousness of guilt. They can get out of the failure period, and start all over again people who respect themselves, not only to feel their natural value, but also know that they are in life to do something important. They feel that they are loved, and therefore can truly love others. Having a good opinion of themselves, they are able to respond positively to people and different situations.

The good opinion of yourself allows peopleindulgent treat their appearance and do not even worry about his or her identity. Such people will not hesitate to throw all their forces to overcome the problems encountered, instead of falling under their weight. They know how to take a sober, nor offered, evaluate simple to achieve. People with self-esteem, are aware of their abilities. They understand that they are not perfect, that from time to time make mistakes and suffer setbacks in life. However, a sober rastsenivaya their capabilities, they also understand that they have enough good qualities to counterbalance the negative traits of his character. That's why they feel on a par with others, and believe that they are able to justify the credit of trust from others.

Self-esteem - it is not self-love, is not synonymouspride. In fact, when a man boasts himself and his achievements, this is a classic symptom of an underdeveloped sense of self-esteem. People who know how to appreciate themselves and in all situations to preserve the dignity, do not require the need to impress others of his talent or wealth

Self-esteem is not measured or talentsabilities. Many people who have a bright talent and great ability, can nevertheless have a low self-esteem. History tells us of the many smart and talented people who become alcoholics, drug addicts or suicide in order to escape from his »I», which they hated.