If men only leads to relaxationstimulation of the penis, the women again all tangled. Scientists are not tired to argue, what is the body (except brain, of course) plays in our orchestra first violin. In recent years, they agree on one thing: the main by the delight in the female body - the clitoris. It approximately 8,000 nerve endings! According to Planned Parenthood, 80% of women to achieve orgasm is in need clitoral stimulation. But do not forget about the other »tools». »The vaginal orgasm is also there, but it happens rarely, - says Anna Fedorova. - Vagina no receptors that are sensitive to touch. Its mucosa reacts only tension - due to deep-seated receptors. In addition, a pleasant sensation in the vagina can occur only if the woman is already aroused by foreplay, and first of all - the clitoris. »
»Vaginal orgasm is usually associated withclitoral - says sexologist and psychotherapist Alex fork. - With an increase of good feeling in the clitoris can move them in the area of the vagina. » The clitoris is not really small pouch, and a rather large body. He has to us invisible »legs», which lie quite deep and touch the vaginal walls. They, according to scientists, may be responsible for a vaginal orgasm.
A point G? In the 1950s, the German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg said that on the front wall of the vagina, behind the pubic bone, there is a cluster of nerve cells and, if during sex or masturbation wonderful area to promote, discharge will be especially bright. Many scientists are skeptical here. Some claim that the point G - a myth. In 2013, the sex therapist, endocrinologist Gianni Emanuele of the University of Rome TorVergata proposed to be held responsible for the so-called female orgasm clitoral-vaginal complex that includes the clitoris, vagina and urethra. »G-spot exists, - objected Anna Fedorova. - But if you start it stimulate a woman who is not excited, it feels more discomfort. You need a special emotional attitude, affection, impact on the clitoris. And again, not all women, this area is sensitive. »
Women can enjoy a few more viewsorgasm. For example, myotonic - it occurs when much strain muscles of hips and pelvic floor. Alas, according to the same Kinsey, 10% of women, none of the available varieties. Failure to reach a discharge even during masturbation is called anorgasmia. »As a rule, two reasons, both psychological and, - says Anna Fedorova. - First - suppression of women of their emotions. For example, a child required to be kept from her. Then it is often in bed and can not let go. The second - the broken contact with his own body (for example, a woman has always considered impolite to touch myself), underdevelopment of erotic sensitivity. In both cases, lack of orgasm is treated by psychotherapy and sex therapy. First, the patient is taught to achieve clitoral orgasm - this is the easiest. Only then n Navigate to the development of vaginal. However, up to the second level, not all reach. The ability to achieve orgasm during stimulation of the clitoris - is perfectly normal for a woman, and the majority of partner pairs, it is quite satisfied. »
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Sexologists called Of-Md parts of the body, which often are embarrassed of their patients, and sex coach Catherine Lyubimov told how to deal with impaired without the help of plastic surgery.NOSE
»Too much», »curve», »aquiline» -Paradoxically, these thoughts interfere relax in sex. »If you hesitate to play around with the lighting, - says sex coach, founder of the network training centers» Sex. RF »Catherine Lyubimov. - But do not turn out the light completely. Men - visuals! The best way out - a candle. As for the nose, it is most often a psychological problem. Did you attach too much importance to the man beside him. Is there not an emotional addiction? Write down on a piece of paper all the partner's shortcomings - from external to internal. So you will understand that it's not perfect, and you will feel better. »ГРУДЬ
The most common complaint. According to a survey by Mirror British newspaper, 30% of women hate their breasts - its size, shape, both at once. »If it bothers you to relax, have sex in a special underwear from a sex shop - advises Catherine Lyubimov. - Best of the body tissue in the mesh, which is pulled over the body like a stocking. Or you can leave on his bed bra and stockings, then the man will be distracted from the breast - stockings they are extremely excited. Of all the positions optimal for you - a missionary when you are on the back. Chest in this position visually tightened. »NECK
The picture usually spoil too large and noticeablebirthmarks. »If a birthmark on the side, and you have long hair, simply dissolve them - recommends Catherine Lyubimov. - There is no such possibility? Use collars and collars from a sex shop. Not all of them are made in BDSMstilistike. There are quite neutral and very interesting design. »БЕДРА И ЯГОДИЦЫ
Women believe that they are too full, thetoo thin and, of course, not enough elastic. »Have sex in stockings with a wide belt - advises Catherine Lyubimov. - They hide the buttocks. Hips will seem slimmer. Emphasize chest in bed can wear sex bras, which leave open the chest, but thanks to the frame lift it from the bottom. Of those better positions where you are on his side with his back to the man. In this case, it will not be looking at your hips. »
