Chris problem can be called the mostfundamental of all the problems of growth. This child has not developed the capacity for affection, and because he was separated from life itself. The boy did not feel the need for a relationship and still suffered from her absence.
The ability to feel an attachment - it'sability to enter into a relationship with God and other people in contact with something outside the self. When the attachment is formed between the two men begins sharing such benefits as sympathy and consolation, encouragement and truth.
Affection brings warmth, the meaning and purpose of life. This is the most important aspect of nature, which we are now going to make it out. The Bible teaches that love never fails (see 1 Corinthians 13: 8.). Entering into the deep, full of love relationship with God and important for us humans, we are able to move any of life's storms and adversity.
Со дня рождения ребенок предназначен для привязанности. Покинув материнскую утробу, он испытывает ужас, гнев, чувство покинутости. Это опыт полного одиночества, когда ни в самом ребенке, ни вокруг него нет ничего хорошего. Роды — тяжкий опыт для младенца, и Бог вложил в мать инстинктивную реакцию на испытываемое новорожденным потрясение: она прижимает к себе малютку, утешает его, успокаивает. И с этого начинается процесс формирования привязанности, который поможет малышу обрести отношения.
Relationship relieve us from an innate inclinationto isolation and self-sufficiency. By nature man unsociable, mistrustful, he is afraid of intimacy. While we do not come into contact with other people, we pestuem own distorted view of reality, life, and ourselves, we have no support in reality, nothing brings us back to the truth.
Some people do not agree that the ability toto attachment - it's part of nature. It seems affectionate is not like the nature of such aspects as morality, integrity, the ability to make the right decisions. Nevertheless, it refers to the basic functions of human. If the child gets enough love and good treatment, it is tied to those who loved him and well he had been treated, is beginning to realize how good to be loved and to receive good treatment. Moreover, he himself is learning to love and good contact with other people. This is the basis of the Golden Rule, the basis of all morality (see. Matthew 7:12). A man capable of love, has internal structures, which allow him to become a man of moral.
Attachment not invented by man, but by God. God - the embodiment of the relationship, and intimacy. God is love (see 1 John 4: 8.). Somehow - how, our understanding is not available - the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit are tied to each other and are in a committed relationship. When we move away from God, He is in isolation in relation to us, but the proximity of persons of the Trinity is never interrupted.
