The written explanation also helps to resolve disputes and to deliver the children of hostile feelings through creative descriptions occurred quarrel. We resorted to this method at home, when our sons 10 and 12 years grappled with each other. I went with them up, threw them in a room, gave each a pen and paper and told to describe the whole fight on paper. The ten-year mark, who has always been more emotional, describing the brawl for all was given to him for this forty-five minutes, outlining in detail your feelings:

"Rodney played hockey, and I accidentally hit him with a stick. He got angry and started waving his stick, trying to hit me in the legs. I tried to run away from him. When I reached the door, he hit me with a stick on the soles of his feet. I turned and threw him his stick, which cracked in half. He went into the bathroom, pulled one of my machines and descended into the basement, where we store all of our things and tools, threw it with such force that she hit the floor and then the wall. When Rodney did, I kicked him. Then he ran into the living room, and I went to his typewriter. I checked her over, put on the floor, ran after him into the living room, kicked Rodney again and started banging on it. Then I calmed down, took the machine and came to you. I kicked and beat him because he didn't have to go with my stuff".

Rod, who was two years older, had a greater calmness, endurance and sanity. He wrote an explanation for five to ten minutes:

"I broke the machine Mark because he bashed me my putter. I stood up to him; then he threw me a stick, causing it to split in half. Then I took his car and crashed it. That's all".