In adolescence reviving the conflict between the good and bad sides of the soul. The guys are starting to experience new aspects of their personality, they offer a new world of courtship and Dating.

And again acutely the question: "if I'm good Enough?" When a teenager passes through this new experience, parents should be there to help him cope with setbacks, and victories. Prepare in advance to all the rough edges, the UPS and downs of this process.

Provide the child a safe haven where he will be able to process your emotions. You will be able largely to help him, but your help is not enough, need the support of a priest and counselors.

Teenagers feel a whole whirlwind of feelings that they have yet to integrate, including conflicting feelings towards parents. Partly suffering of children caused and awakening sexual desire. Try to make the teenager could some of your problems to discuss with you, but make sure that he had other helpers in the process of integration of the individual.

This process is very important boundaries — unless you manage to save them. Since you will adhere to the established rules and boundaries, the teenager will feel for you at the same time hatred for what you oppose his wishes, and love and gratitude for what you provide him with reliability. Avoid the internecine struggle for power, let the adolescent integrates the indignation of the border. If parents do not be overly aggressive or controlling, their children will be able to integrate themselves and the border.